(Closed) Not sure if I should ask her to be my bridesmaid…

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Should I ask my friend to be a bridesmaid, even if it might upset her sister?

    Don't mess with their family dynamic.

    Ask her, her sister will get over it.

    Other, please explain in the comments.

  • Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Is there something else in the wedding you could ask her to do, like a toast or a reading?  I would spin that somehow.

    Post # 4
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

      @chouette:  I know that weddings are stressful to plan and finance and can cause a lot of tension between friends. Is your friendship with her sister so incredible that it’s not worth losing? Then, you might just want to tell this potential bridesmaid how much she means to you, but you don’t want to cause any drama. 

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    @2BeeMrsE:  I like this idea. This way, no feelings will be hurt.

     

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