(Closed) not sure if I should buy bm gifts

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
541 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

No way! That is overly generous. Just do the bm luncheon and thank them and be done with it.

Post # 4
1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I think if your BMs are going above and beyond the call of duty, say, travelling to the wedding, putting on a wedding shower and/or bachelorette party, taking any time off from work, etc. a small gift would be nice. I think the gift of purchasing the dress is plenty, though, assuming your girls haven’t poured a small fortune into other aspects of the wedding.

Post # 5
4824 posts
Honey bee

Just write a personal hand written card to give to them.  Maybe slide a photo with the two of you in it.

Post # 6
1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

The dress is gift enough but i would add a hand writtten card and or photo like lefeymw suggested since the dress is technically more for you than for them.

Post # 7
2161 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

If you do, I would make it something that didn’t cost a lot, but would mean a lot.  Maybe a handwritten note with a picture of you and your bridesmaid together on your wedding day?

My bridal shop is giving us free necklaces since we bought our dresses there.  They are really simple, but pretty.   I would check into that.

Post # 9
241 posts
Helper bee

I would def write them a card and still just get them something inexpensive since the dress is nice but still something for the wedding. I’ve gotten inexpensive necklaces as gifts that were less than $20.

Post # 10
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I think that the dresses should be there gifts. That would seem fair to me if i was a bridesmaid.

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