(Closed) Not sure if this is good or if I’m confused

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

My advice would be to trust him to do what he says he is going to do. A little story…

I am a Daddy’s girl to the fullest. The first person to hold me was my father. Anything and everything I ever wanted as a child, all I had to do was ask my father…spoiled I know. Well when SO and I started living together I would still call my dad and ask for advice; buying a home, new car whatever. My SO told me I would have a new car by the end of the year and we would have a home within the next two years. I have been stressed out thinking about how we can afford all these things and I approached my father about it. The first thing out of my dad’s mouth was “How much do you need? Cause I can give you X amount right now for your new car”. When I told my SO about it he was hurt and he said why can’t you just trust me to do what I say I am going to do. He was right, and I totally trust my SO to do what he says he is going to do.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

Oh hon it’s so hard waiting on something you really don’t have control over. *HUGS*

He knows how you feel now about the house, good for you. Trust him, yes, I know you’re trying. But I know in the back of your mind you’ll probably always be watching to see if he does the things he says he’s going to do. That is natural. However, it’s essential to act and feel like RIGHT NOW he’s doing everything he needs to do. If you see evidence that he’s not, just take note in your head.  And then come back here for support!

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

Damn. That is confusing (and contradictory like you said).  I can see why you’re frustrated!  It makes me wonder if he has a trick up his sleeve…

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