(Closed) Not sure – STAY or Go??

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
330 posts
Helper bee

I think you need to talk to him… not just try! TALK! he cant completely ignore you if he knows your serious. do it a dinner while you are seated and eating (at home i mean) and if he gets up and leave you have your answer. I would mention moving on if marraige isnt something he wants to see his reaction. Then you can guage what you should do but i think you already know your answer. you put STAY in all caps and i think thats what you want to do. BUT i would caution you about staying in a loveless or devoid of communication

Post # 18
1798 posts
Buzzing bee

@maxfluffy  I think you know the answer to your own question deep down inside. I would give him one more chance to talk things over with you, but tell him that you want to have the chance to explain your feelings to him before he can storm out or say his part. Tell him how you are feeling. That you don’t want to waste your time on something that isn’t going anywhere, and that you want to be able to start a family sooner rather than later. Unless he can change his tune, tell you what you need to hear and then act upon it pretty quickly I don’t see a reason for you to stay.

Post # 19
558 posts
Busy bee

Do you have to live there with them?

Is that how it’s going to be forever?

Have you figured out how the romance fits into that?

If his parents are there and you are there, there is no need for him to marry. He is being babied by everyone so his immediate needs are fulfilled.

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