(Closed) Not sure what color to have my hair for wedding. ADVICE!!

posted 8 years ago in Beauty
  • poll: Do you prefer blonde or Dark on me?
    Blonde : (10 votes)
    18 %
    Dark : (47 votes)
    82 %
  • Post # 3
    1207 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    Do you have pictures of you blonde and of you dark so we can compare?

    Post # 4
    1573 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Have you talked to your Fiance about this. Does he prefer one over the other?

    What about 10, 20 years from now–what do you think you’ll prefer?


    Post # 5
    5263 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Go with whatever makes you feel beautiful. My hair is naturally a dark blonde, but I color it medium brown and love it that way. Future Mother-In-Law always says, “why didn’t you leave your hair blonde? I like it better blonde!” but it’s not her opinion that counts. 🙂 

    Post # 6
    332 posts
    Helper bee

    I think you should look like yourself on your wedding day although dark hair looks really good against a wedding dress and veil. Your pictures didn’t show up. Good luck!

    Post # 7
    104 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Is going back to blonde even a possibility in your time frame before the wedding without completely damaging your hair? If you went very very dark, then you might have a problem if you decide you really want to go back blonde. I’d suggest talking to your hairdresser about your realistic possibilities and make a decision of what YOU want based off of that.

    Post # 8
    2634 posts
    Sugar bee

    I just went about TWO shades darker than my normal hair color and really love it, but my hair is naturally brown anyway. 

    Since the difference is so dramatic (blonde to brown) I’d really think if that is how I’d want my pics to look in 5, 10, 20, etc years.  Is the brown just a phase or is it something you’ll want to keep up for good?

    Post # 9
    2532 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I cant vote until I see pictures!

    Post # 10
    2006 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I second madswan. I’m a natural blonde but used to die my hair black. I wasn’t able to afford the upkeep anymore (black hair + blonde roots = trashy) so I decided to go back to blonde. I destroyed my hair because I did it too quickly. That was 2 years ago and I eventually just chopped my hair off but it no longer holds dye so I’m stuck being a blonde.

    If you want to go blonde I would start going to the salon now and gradually make your hair lighter. It would be expensive because you would probably have to go every 4 weeks to be able to have your blonde (healthy) hair back by your wedding.

    Post # 14
    6597 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I prefer you with dark hair I think it looks a lot more natural. Are you a natural blonde?

    That being said though it is really what you think you will be more likely to keep from here on out. Will you most likely be blonde or brunette for the rest of your life? Think about 50 years down the road what will you like to see when looking back at wedding pics?

    And another thing to consider which does your Fiance prefer?

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