(Closed) Not sure what to do #2

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
3041 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Honestly, I would never have apologized in the first place – from what you wrote in your previous post, she was the one at fault and the one over reacting in a completely unacceptable way.

That said, you’ve already apologized, so at this point I would just try to put it behind me and move on with the wedding preparations.


Post # 3
9698 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015


you already apologized. FMIL doesnt get a redo just because she was pouting. Hopefully your  FI can accept that you’ve done your part. 

Post # 4
1426 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

I agree with PP.  Being the “bigger person” doesn’t always mean you have to apologize (especially if you’re not the one at fault). All that does is teaches the offender that they can get away with unacceptable behavior.  I’d keep that in mind for the future.


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