(Closed) Not sure what to do about actually getting bridesmaids…

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I dont think you have to have even numbers… Why dont you mix it. He has his groomsmen and you choose a Maid/Matron of Honor. and they can stand on either side, doesnt have to be boys/girls. Also you should talk to your FH hubby about and approach him with your dilemma. Im sure he would be cool with it.

Or you dont even have to have a Maid/Matron of Honor.. just have the groomsmen on either side you and your FH. That could work!

Post # 4
10218 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

I would ask his sisters. I asked my sister, M’s sister, my cousin and best friend since I moved here.  His sister’s would probably be sooo honored!! Do they have sons or daughters, perhaps the kids could be in the bridal party?

Post # 5
654 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I would probably ask his sisters too and go ahead and ask your friend. I’m sure she had her resons for keeping her bridal party as she did.. Maybe they’re going with a small family only wedding party. Its hard to speculate on why other people make their choices.

Post # 6
1103 posts
Bumble bee

I’d ask his sisters too, if they feel like they aren’t able to do it then they will tell you so. But either way I’m sure they’d be honoured! Ask whoever you like, regardless of whether they have asked you or how long you’ve known them – you never know why someone has made the choices they have. It’s totally ok to have an uneven bridal party too, the important thing is having the right people up there with you 🙂

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