(Closed) Not sure what to do about my wedding band…

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
3259 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

Oh wow, that ring is so unique! I love it. I think personally because it is so big already, I would not wear a band. If you want one for the ceremony you should get your favorite and wear it as a RHR. That way it doesn’t need to match.

I think custom is your best bet here if you really want a band. But you could possibly get a pave if you don’t mind some gap. Just make sure it is the same width as the diamonds in the ering.

Or, potentially get two incredibly thin bands, one for each side. Maybe with no diamonds in them.

Post # 3
713 posts
Busy bee

A custom band that’s just plain metal and swoops under your ring shouldn’t be terribly expensive, depending on your budget. I’d pop in to a few local jewelers and see if you can get some quotes before writing that off entirely!

Post # 4
1488 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Cape May

Have you thought about wearing your ering on your right hand to allow for a great stand alone wedding band? Otherwise I would go with a thin pave band as suggested previously.

Post # 5
5560 posts
Bee Keeper

Go to berricle.com and order some shape variations to see what you like with it.  Look for the chevrons and the curves.  Or just get a regular band and rock the gap.  Either way you get to see what the ring will look like and then return what you don’t like.

It’s a beautiful ring, very unique.

Post # 6
4812 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

I recommend you skip a band and wear it as a standalone, or get whatever band you like and move the engagement ring over to your right hand (not an uncommon practice!).

I don’t mind gaps, but a straight band with that ring would mean a rather substantial gap and push the ring up to your knuckle, and adding a custom band I think would either look like an afterthought or just make the ring look unbalanced.


Post # 7
18 posts
  • Wedding: January 2014

I agree with the other ladies, I would just wear that ring alone. The gap would be huge with a straight band. A custom band may or may not be that expensive depending on where you go.

If you really want a wedding band with it, I suggest getting a thin, plain white gold curved custom band. That way, its cheaper because there are no diamonds in it. And it wont make the ring set look too much.

Post # 8
118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

I know this was posted 3 months ago but if you are still looking maybe something like the band in this picture would be good?   But I agree that this ring would be OK without a wedding band. 


Post # 9
124 posts
Blushing bee

I have a friend who has a large ring like that and she doesn’t wear a wedding band, just her ring. 

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