(Closed) Not sure what to do: take what I can get, or leave? : / (1st post was eaten)

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What do you think I should do?
    Give it a little more time and hang back a bit- he's likely just stressed and feels pressured. : (2 votes)
    17 %
    Break it off. : (10 votes)
    83 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2161 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I think you know the answer.  I mean this gently, but if you are asking a bunch of strangers what to do, it’s probably best to cut ties with him.   Don’t settle because you’re in your 30s.

    Post # 4
    Member
    5199 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 2010

     

    i posted the same in your other thread:

    To me the two nights a week/week off thing is a red herring. People make all sorts of arrangements for spending time together.

    I, however, would not stay with someone who:

    1. Deliberately pushed me away (and without even communicating what he needed!);

    2. Told me I was going to pay for exes’ mistakes (unhealthy much, and was it not HIS mistake to marry them?);

    3. Who was so emotionally distant and stunted so as to punish me rather than get their ass to therapy;

    4. Who was unprepared to work with me on something that was important to me (his way or the highway).

    I DO think you need to look at you expectations, wants, and needs and determine if you are meeting those by staying in this relationship.

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