(Closed) Not sure where to put this…. weird occurrence last night

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

I see the significance of look how far you’ve come and that you’re in such a better place now.  Funny how those things work out.

 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

That’s kind of a nice surprise!  Quite obviously the ring was embarrassed being associated with douchy-boyfriend memories and took an extended vacation!

Maybe you can wear the ring now as a “fashion” ring if it doesn’t carry the emotional baggage with it that it once had?

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Anise I love that the ring was embarassed so it hid. 😉 Totally agree, think of it as a reminder of where you’ve come from but don’t dwell on it!

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@google:  I LOVE when life kinda throws in a hello from the past. 🙂  I think, if you give any meaning to it, consider it a reminder of where you’ve been and where you’re going.  It sounds like this new SO is a a keeper…and your past relationship should remind of this fact.

Post # 6
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Helper bee

I think it’s funny how it resurfaced at a point in your life where you really have moved on.  I can understand that it could make you feel a little weird.  I have a promise ring from a long relationship as well and even though our relationship didn’t end poorly I can’t bring myself to wear it.  I probably will wear it again but I can see if you wouldn’t want to wear yours.  How do you feel about keeping or wearing it?

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

@google:  This is hilarious. This happened to me too! I had a promise ring and another ring I wore on my right hand. When we broke up (6 year HORRIBLE relationship…the works) I put them somewhere. Don’t remember where. When my boyfriend and I moved to another city together, I found them in this little baggy inside some really old purse! I was like WTF?? I totally got weirded out and didn’t know what to do with them at all lol. They are still sitting in the same spot I found them because I don’t want to throw them away because I could probably sell them…but…it was just strange. I didn’t find any “meaning” or purpose to them turning up I was just like…hm?!

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