(Closed) Not the best friend I thought you were…

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
4824 posts
Honey bee

Decide if she is the kind of friend you want long term. Or are you friends now just because you were before? Not all relationships stay the same.  Then that is your answer

Post # 4
1486 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Maybe she was hurt and defensive and once she calms down you guys will have a more productive conversation.  Good luck. 

Post # 7
2550 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I agree w/ @lefeymw.  If you want to maintain this friendship, continue to put up w/ her BS.  If your tired of it, let her know that its not working and refund the cost of her dress.  The last thing you want is a Maid/Matron of Honor who doesn’t give a damn about you and destroy your wedding day.  You don’t need the continued stress or drama.

By The Way, I know several brides that stopped being friends w/ members of their wedding party.  It happens because life happens.  This wouldn’t be the 1st friend that you may eventually outgrow.

Good Luck!!!!



Post # 8
1144 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Maybe something is going on with her? Maybe give her some space.

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