(Closed) Not TTC… BFP? Gulp.

posted 4 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 46
35 posts
  • Wedding: October 2013

I was initially a size 3, and at 16 weeks, I was still hiding it from my boss. 

Post # 47
256 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I saw your dress too. I think it will be fine! You should be feeling good by 4 months too! I thought I had a bump by then but looking back it wasn’t terribly noticeable. This is 15 weeks. 

Post # 48
6503 posts
Bee Keeper

Congratulations! I laughed at the array of pregnancy tests–I was shocked and sure there must have been something wrong with the first test I took did the same thing.

I’m sure it’s a lot to wrap your brain around right now, and not the timing you had planned, but a blessing all the same.You’ll be happily in your second trimester for the wedding. Best wishes!

Post # 49
290 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Congratulations!! I had a tough first trimester but was feeling GREAT by 16 weeks. I was barely showing them too. You’ll look beautiful, and your baby will be so loved! 

Post # 50
661 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Congrats on your upcoming marriage and baby! I am 21 weeks along, normally I am a size 2 (5’6″ and 115lbs). At 16 weeks I was not showing that much. What would have been most problematic for me (I just looked at your dress) is the boobs. My boobs went up two cup sizes by 16 weeks, but everyone is different!

I am sure a seamstress can make it work no matter what, even if it means altering the dress a bit!

Have you told your fiance yet? Just keep in mind that you had some “warning signs” (a gut feeling, knowing you ovulated early). I don’t know if you had let him know you ovulated early and that pregnancy may be possible but he may be surprised and not react the same way as he will feel once he has a chance to process it all 🙂

Post # 51
1418 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

did you tell him??

Post # 54
609 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

Congratulations!! So glad your Fiance reacted well 😀 best of luck to the three of you!

Post # 55
1564 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

vericari:  aww yay so happy it went well!!

Post # 56
1344 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

vericari:  congratulations! I know it’s kind of daunting to be knocked up in the middle of wedding planning but I’m so excited for you two! 

Post # 57
275 posts
Helper bee

That’s wonderful news! Congratulations… Very happy it went well.  Good luck and many blessings to you both!

Post # 58
4506 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Congrats! And at 4 months, I had zero noticeable bump and was still in all my pre-preg clothes. I’m also a size 4 or so. So you never know: you might be showing and you might not. Good luck to you!

Post # 59
1248 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012 - Chateau Briand

Congratulations! I’be been quietly following along and glad your Fiance took the news so well- must be a reason you’re marrying him 🙂 congrats again, happy and healthy nine months!

Post # 60
575 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011


vericari:  Congratulations on your pregnancy and upcoming wedding! I had two friends who had the same thing happen to them and their weddings were even more special after they shared the news. I’m a little over 16 weeks now and unless you know me or I wear very tight clothes, you wouldn’t even know I’m pregnant. I still haven’t told work. Especially in your dress, you’ll look beautiful without being noticeably pregnant. Good luck with everything! Nice to hear that your Fiance took the news so well–that will definitely help take away stress about this for you.

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