Post # 17
@FutureMrs.Taylor- Ugh! sorry about that! even if its not important to them they should know it is to you thats just what friends DO! but I totally understand thats why I dont have tons of friends.
@thefuturemrsgibbs- Oh ya we looked at it from every angle with/without but I think it would just mean so much more to us just him and I up there and its how we would like to remember it who knows if we’ll talk to everyone (the wedding party) 5 yrs from now ya know?…
Post # 18
I am totally with you Sep Queen…a big bridal party can jsut be a pain…for my first wedding over 10 yrs ago, we had 5 on each side and none of my girls helped, and my MH just took over the day and really pissed me and everyone else off. This time around we are only having a MH and Bridesmaid or Best Man (his sister and brother) and two Jr Bridesmaids only because they totally have their hearts set on being in the wedding. We opted to not have anymore people in it because we are having a very small wedding and didn’t want to pick between friends, this was jsut simpler. Who knows maybe your BMs will be a lil relieved, now they won’t have to buy a dress 🙂
Post # 19
I’m pretty sure that I will talk to my bridesmaids because they are mostly all family except for my Maid/Matron of Honor.
It’s always good to keep in mind that your wedding is very important and you only get married once. So you do need to make sure that you don’t end up regretting the people in your wedding party that you choose.
What did you decide to do? Or when you decide what to do just keep us bees posted okay?
Post # 20
@sleepykirsty-Good idea on only having the MH&BM : )
@thefuturemrsgibbs- So for sure its only going to be my Fiance and I up there yay! I feel better about the whole thing now : )