(Closed) Nothing can ever go right

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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8 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I think your sister’s friend has nothing better to do but focus on what your doing/saying. It’s a blog, yes it should have been private if you just intended on venting but still..it’s YOUR blog!
Just stay strong and focus on your wedding plans. If you say your relationship with your sister and brother had already been suffering, then don’t worry about the questions people have at your wedding.
I hope everything works out the way you want it to. Good Luck and remember wedding planning is supposed to be one of the happiest times! 🙂

Post # 4
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1177 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

They only got upset when you wrote something about them? WHAT? Being someone who struggles with similar things.. I would be furious if they knew all about it and never came to me once to give me support. They sound incredibly immature to be confronting you about it over FACEBOOK. How old are these people?

I know it sucks, but maybe it’s not so bad that they don’t want to associate with you. I wouldn’t want to associate with them if they can’t be there for me with something so dangerous. What the hell would she have done if you’d, say, killed yourself and she hadn’t said or done anything to help you? Disgusting.

On a side note.. feel free to PM me anytime!

Post # 5
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1686 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I think you owe family members an apology if what you said hurt them. Yes, you thought your friend would keep your blog a secret, and that what was said there would stay private, but the beef is with your friend for violating that trust.

In the future, if you decide to blog anonymously about your personal issues and thoughts on the people in your life, don’t tell your friends.

I hope you can work this out with your family.

Post # 6
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2247 posts
Buzzing bee

How was this person able to locate your blog?  What a bitch!  I think it’s messed up that your sibs didn’t support you when you were having suicidal thoughts.

Post # 7
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3482 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

I’m going to echo Leahhh here and say I think your sister’s a selfish, despicable person if she could happily read all about everything you’re going through without a care in the world, and only get all bent out of shape when you vent about your siblings.

She thinks SHE’S hurt? By a vent? Try dealing with suicidal depression and an eating disorder, sunshine, you’ll learn what it’s really like to hurt. Un-freaking-believable.

If you ever want to PM me, feel free.

Post # 8
Member
3142 posts
Sugar bee

@Elvis:

+ 1

Or better yet, write it in a diary you keep in your bedside drawer.

Post # 9
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@Mrs. Puffin:

@linguo42: agreed! They should be worried about your health, not what you said about them (at least, it does take a backseat to your health)

Post # 10
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46331 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would start with an apology. Just think how you would feel if one of your relatives blogged about your ups and downs ,behaviors and actions.

Luckily you have 2 years for some healing to take place in your family before your wedding.

Post # 11
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335 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I didn’t have time to read the whole post, but I see the facebook icon on your picture.  Are you signed in via facebook posting this?  I’m not sure how the FB WB interaction works, but just wanted to give you a heads up in case you wanted to keep this vent private to the bee.

Post # 13
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

although you use your blog to vent the fact is it isnt private and real people were hurt by your real words – i can only imagine if it was you in their shoes reading words about you and observations made.  if you really wanted to keep it private then you shouldnt have published it for the world to read

my thoughts are if you cant say it to someones face then dont let strangers read it online – people are savy to tracking people down these days and there is very little privacy

i understand you are struggling with a number of issues in your life and this has added to it – sending my best for your continued recovery and health

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