(Closed) Nothing Kills the Mood like talking about somone else’s wedding plans….

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Aw, Im sorry! I got a pit in my stomach for you just now lol.

Does you Boyfriend or Best Friend know you will be busy the whole month of april? Maybe he was trying to gage your reaction on a destination wedding>???

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

ick πŸ™ and i agree with honeybear, maybe he was trying to gage your reaction…

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’m sorry that happened.  What I just focus on and did all along is the good.  It’s a good thing his buddy found love and when you stay positive and focus on the good stuff, our stuff kinda fades.

I say if your guy is excited about his friends’ engagement, YOU be excited too!  He may decide that this engagement thing is really great and that if his bff’s doing it, then maybe you being over the moon happy about that wedding will make him want to sweep you off your feet!!!

How about an engagement in normandy?  In France?  Oui Oui that would be HOT. 

Maybe you could slip it into conversation “Wow.  Wouldn’t that be hot if we went to their wedding all the way to France.  How romantic.  France.  I sure would like a proposal at the Eiffel Tower.”

Put a thought in his head and keep positive and happy!!!  

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Ugh… that is such a buzzkill. The Boy and I had a similar experience this weekend. His friend and his fiancee came over to hang out. While she and I were having “girl talk,” she let is slip they are getting married in January (small JOP deal).

In bed, later I mentioned it to the Boy who replied, “And?” AND?!!! AND??!!!! And I have no idea if/when I will be engaged and get married is what I wanted to scream.

I think guys just don’t get how we feel hearing about other people getting engaged or getting married.

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

What I see as encouraging is both of your guys are being positive about marriage and sharing with you that their friends are getting married.

Them mentioning it means to me that they’re good with the concept!

I see this as nothing but all good!  Sure they have no idea or any sensitivity chip inside when they begin the wedding talk or talk of their friends getting engaged, but it’s funny.  I swear about a decade ago when my girlfriends began getting engaged, the guys just fell into line, one after the other asking their girls to marry them!  It was if my entire single circle of friends disappeared within a year or two.

I think really them being on board with their friend marrying might just give them the oomph to see how great it would be to marry the girl they love!  YOU!  πŸ™‚

Post # 8
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Blushing bee

OHHHH man I know how you feel.  Haha I would have reacted the same way.  If it makes you feel any better I have to now help with my friend who just got pregnant, after i just spent the last 2 years planning all my friends showers, bachelorettes, weddings and now babies.  On top of that my younger sister told me about her friend getting engaged last night.  And the wait goes on and on and on and on………………….

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Girl, my best friend is in the midst of planning her Oct. 2010 wedding and one of me and SO’s friends is getting married June 2010.  I just wanna to go lie in a ditch somewhere.

Post # 13
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

((hugs)) i think you’re being very reasonably actually. did you tell your beau the reason why, i’d probably just say your friend isn’t bringing a date so you don’t want her to feel like she’s the third wheel with two couples.  but it does sound like your beau is trying to get all of your friends together to see how you mesh..

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

lol πŸ˜€

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