November 2017 POAS part 3

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Post # 241
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: City, State

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mrsatoz :  I see a shadow! Could have been implant bleeding or breakthrough bleeding. FX itʻs sticky and that line progresses!

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TiggersMitts :  someone propose this to amazon, are they not in pharmaceuticals yet? I mean come on whatʻs the hold up! 

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Worker bee

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RaccoonKitty : Whoaaaa.. Crazy!!! I have been charting, but last month was my first go at temping so it was kind of sporadic. I used FF. Also confirmed O through Clear Blue Advanced Digital OPK and CM. I was almost 99% sure that we had BD timing right. We even used Preseed. Lol. I went a little crazy with the whole thing.. my poor Fiance. Lmao. Maybe I should take another HPT?! I just gave up testing.. since I got the negative beta at my PCP. I don’t have any preg. symptoms at the moment. But I’m 25 and have regular cycles since I was 13. Never had one this long. Had you before you had the 50+ one?! What made you test at day 70?

 

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tiffanybruiser :  I was on BCP about 6 years ago, for about 2 years. I’m going bat shit crazy. Never wanted AF to come so bad in my lifeeeeeee! Haha 

Post # 243
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Sugar bee

Hmmmn. What le fuck is going on guys? Lol! Huge ass temp drop (not normal for me at 13dpo). I’m wondering if AF is going to show up early. Wouldn’t surprise me, this cycle has been cray cray.

In other news, next month is going to be shit because we’ll be smack bang in the middle of an intetstate move during my FW, FML! We’re BDing EOD whether we like it or not. Lol.

ETA I’ve already looked up fertility specialists in the place we are moving to 😑😳

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Sugar bee

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mama2beee :  I had a 120+ day long cycle like 4 years ago. I think most of my crazy cycles were caused by the medication I was on.

When I got pregnant, we were on our honeymoon and my feet felt like they were on FIRE, my feet are never hot! My boobs were so swollen amd sensitive my clothes against them hurt… so I tested – BFN. 2 weeks later and still no AF I got a blood test and it was positive. I think my HCG was like 600 so I was indeed pregnant. That was weird and crazy too. 

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Sugar bee

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RaccoonKitty :  Sex in a moving truck sounds like it can spice up TTC though…

Post # 246
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Sugar bee

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MsPlucky :  baaahahaha 😂 yeah it might be in a tent until we get a place to rent. That’ll definitely spice things up! Ha!

Post # 247
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Wow bees, every day I read about 10 pages!!  

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RaccoonKitty :  haha try to get the reputation of “those neighbours” on your first night lol!!

 

so Darling Husband and I FINALLY got to BD… after about 3 weeks, OMG we were ready to jump each other anyway, FW or not, lol. Any FMF grurus out there? My last cycle was stupid… everything was right, EWCM and then AF showed up 4 days early. Now FMF is predicting a 26 day cycle (usually 28, last time was 24). My AF showed up early, normally lasts 3-4 days but this time it lasted the first 4 days early, then additional regular 3-4 days so it ended on the same day a second normal. So I assume I’ll be back to 28 days but who the hell knows. So I’m just hoping I haven’t O yet and we get to BD all weekend and actually be back in the running, AGAIN, for November. Argh this is complicated. Also no sign of EWCM yet, but last time I had “ovulation pains” (“” because they were much more intense than normal) on CD 14-15. So do I expect O on what “should” have been CD 14-15 since AF came early AND lasted longer so it ended up finishing on the normal day?  Or do I base it off of ~ 14 days from when AF began (early)? I guess no one can really answer this, I’m not temping, so I guess I’ll just have no idea until I feel O (if I feel it, although I usually can). I also don’t think I’ll temp next cycle regardless, Darling Husband thinks temping will only make the stress worse and I suppose he’s probably right. As it is I am OCD enough. Anyway. Big glass of 🍷to all of you. I can’t keep up with you guys!!

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Sugar bee

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RaccoonKitty :  Hey… tent sex can be great sex. And if you don’t have to worry about the people in the tent on the next campsite over … just sayin’.

You could forever embellish the story that you guys were camping in December, had to get naked to keep warm, and “it just happened!” It’ll be GREAT for the first talk with boyfriend/girlfriend. 

…I’m going to be a horrible parent…

Post # 251
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2016

So I called and talked to a nurse, but she said it was up to me whether or not I came in for the blood test. I just did it anyway, might as well. I’m definitely not pregnant now, but maybe it could confirm whether I had a CP or not? Who knows. 

Post # 252
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Bumble Beekeeper

Ugh I need to go off on a non TTC rant. Ever have one of those days (or weeks) where it’s just one irritation after the next? Like nothing catastrophic has happened (thank god) but various bureaucratic fuckups in different areas of my life, the combined effect of which has just put me into a fucking rage!!!

1) Our landlord changed the lock on the front door of our apartment building, but I guess forgot to give the new key to USPS or something. We haven’t gotten a single piece of mail in about 4 days since the lock was changed, and I’ve had two separate Amazon packages sent through USPS (both ttc related as luck would have it – a new bbt thermometer and a new set of OPKs) that were supposed to arrive in the last couple days but were “undeliverable because carrier was not able to access the front door to deliver your package.” Never got that message before with a USPS package so I know this is to do with the new lock.

But what REALLY pisses me off the most is that I receive my paychecks in the mail (freelancer) and am currently waiting on a $3500 check…WTF!?!? Am I just to asssume that won’t be delivered due to this mail fuckup? We notified the landlord but haven’t gotten a fucking response. I’m about to go POSTAL (pun intended!)!!!

2) We rent a parking spot in an underground parking garage across the street. To make a long story short there’s been recurrent vandalism in the garage – a couple weeks ago 5 different cars were smashed into (windows broken) and a few weeks before that the same thing happened. And due to insane bureaucracy no one can even figure out who actually owns this garage and has access to the surveillance cameras. The police came and were basically like “yeahhhh we’re understaffed and this is not a priority, dont leave anything valuable in your car good luck!” I’ve sent emails and called like 4 different companies that seem affiliated with this garage, even contacted our alderman, and have made no fucking progress. I feel like our car is just a sitting duck in there. It makes me fucking furious that we are paying so much for that spot when we’d be just as good leaving it out on the street!!! (Except not, cause winter is here and it’s brutal)

3) This is definitely a first world problem but HERE GOES…we have a maid service that comes once a month to clean the apt. They were supposed to come today, and I waited all afternoon and they never fucking arrived. Called the company and they’re like oh yeah they’re running behind, can they come tomorrow? Like fine actually tomorrow is FINE, but I fucking sat here waiting for them all afternoon – it’s just fucking irritating. I need to find a new maid service, this one is overpriced and the communication is terrible, but blargh

4) This one happened to Darling Husband but it pissed me off more, lol. So Darling Husband is kind of in the public spotlight with his job and the organization he works for just randomly published a fundraising letter/email signed by him, like as if it was written by him, which they sent to thousands of donors in our city. However, Darling Husband never saw the letter before it went out or was even given a heads-up that they were gonna do this. There was nothing offensive about the letter or anything but I think it’s fucking outrageous they didn’t run it by him first or at least give him a heads up like “hey we’re gonna send out this letter that has your name on it fyi”…like wtf? So he mentioned it to someone at his work who works with the development people, and she was like yeah that’s fucked up let me look into it and get back to you……and nothing. And he doesn’t want to make this huge stink, but I’m riled up – I feel like it’s disrespectful and just fucked, like he actually does so much for this organization, and would have been happy to write the letter himself (which he’s actually done in the past) or even to have them send it as is, but at least show it to him first and give him a heads up!!!

Ok rant over lol. If you lasted this long, you are a saint!!

Post # 254
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Busy bee

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tiffanybruiser :  all of that is super irritating and I don’t think it’s stupid. 

FWIW I also get way more mad about things that happen to Darling Husband than he does. Maybe it’s a woman thing lol

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