(Closed) November brides: anyone else hitting the wedding insecurity wall?

posted 7 years ago in November 2011
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I get like that sometimes. But then I have to step back and realize if I stripped everything away I would still be the happiest girl on 11/4 bc I am marrying the man of my dreams AND get to party with our most favorite people. It can’t be mediocre if you have great company 🙂

 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@JandieMames: *like!*

 

@UK Bride: Just try to relax! You’re day will be amazing…even if the wine isn’t fabulous 🙂

 

I get nervous sometimes, but I also know that those little details will never ruin the night. I know we’re having good music and food, so that alone will make it awesome. We have amazing friends and unbelievable families, and everyone will be there to celebrate us! So what if the seating arrangement is less than perfect? Everyone will still have fun, promise!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Ya I think the same way sometimes. But a lot of things I have to do can get done in a day so I’ll take a Sunday here and there to get them done. A little at a time! You will be fine, I promise!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I was feeling the same exact way yesterday… I got home from work and looked at the pile of wedding stuff I haven’t touched in over a month. I was so anxious about it I finally had to talk to someone and of course my Future Mother-In-Law was to the rescue! She said take the time to write a list of everything I have done, then a list of everything you need to get done, and then a list of things you would like to get done but don’t have to get done if there is no time. It was nice to see that I had more things done than I actually have to do!

My shower is this coming Saturday so I’m not letting myself do anything until after that!

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

I know how you feel! I have been out of the state for two months and so planning has been put on hold. I can’t wait to get back and be in the thick of things. Especially since I will be really busy right up to the wedding, time should fly! I’m worried about the little things right now too, like the fact that my caterer won’t return my emails :O it is frustrating.

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m starting to freak out like that too! I already know our caterer is bad (unfortunately, it’s the only caterer we could use for our venue. boo. but i loved the venue so much!). we are also on a VERY strict budget! But all that matters to me is that my family and friends are there to help support and celebrate the biggest day of my life. It’s a rollercoaster ride till the actual day! You got go with the ups and downs and just remember that everyone (including your hubby to be) are just so happy for you!!

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