(Closed) November POAS Part 3! Let's see those BFP's!

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Post # 182
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Helper bee

@misssunflower-1 they changed my name too. Granted it was MisStine and now its misstine so its not a huge change but i would have liked a little imput if they were going to change my name.

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@iluvblueberries Congrats on your BFP, somehow i missed it in my 3 page, work/sleeping catch up. FX I can join you on a due board soon!

MrsJuneBee Personally, I’d take him to court. We aren’t a exactly well to do. We make it work but aren’t loaded. But we would definitly be taking SD’s mom to court if that shoe was on our foot. At the very least that way you can say you tried. Plus if (god forbid) something were to go wrong there are already documents stating you were weary about it to begin with. There is a possibility that you’ll have to have a plan of action like he picks her up from location x at day, time and brings her back to location x at day and time. I know in the past (early 90’s) they made the visiting parent pay any travel expenses. I don’t know how it works now, because we have worked as a very odd team to get her from one place to the other. Don’t know how this next one will go.

Post # 183
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@krystallite:  Sorry you’re feeling lost!  I’ll put you on the list as TBD, so keep us updated.

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@MrsHovzilla:  Wow, twins!  I think what’s getting me about the facebook announcement is it’s a girl who was very successfull in school and in sports and I’ve always been a little jealous of her.  It sucks to feel that way for no good reason.

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@h2mrsdj:  I know!!!  There are at least 2 women who work on the floor of my office building, and don’t even get me started on customers with cute babies at my retail job.  I did get to hold a super cute baby at the shop recently so that made me happy πŸ™‚

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@MrsMoksha:  Wow, that must be touch hearing about SIL’s pregnancy all the time.  My SIL and Brother-In-Law have a 3 year old who I adore, but I’m already having anxiety about whether SIL will get pregnant with her 2nd before I get pregnancy with my first.  I don’t want to be jealous of her, I really like her.  It would be cool if we were pregnant around the same time though, that would be fun.  

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@wifegoodman:  Thanks babe!  Sorry about your phone, but you will love your new iPhone 5.

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@glittermoon:  I’m sorry things are stressful right now.  It’s definitely a rollercoaster, so feel free to post when you need support.

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@ChuckNorris:  Cool!  One more week and almost birthday πŸ™‚  FX for you!

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@misssunflower-1:  That is so weird about your name!  I noticed that mine doesn’t have a capital “M” anymore.  Maybe this has something to do with the recent update.

Post # 184
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@iluvblueberries:  Congratulations!  That is awesome news!  Stick baby dust to you.

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@rosworms:  The test on the morning of CD13 does look positive.  It’s good that you DTD that night because it can take 12-24 hours to ovulate after a LH surge.  FX for you, but if this isn’t your lucky month keep charting – that will make it so much easier to confirm O date.

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@MrsJuneBee:  Oh man, the threat of deforestation!  Are you afraid you’re getting too old?  I’m 30 so I do feel like I’m a little behind but there are tons of ladies who get PG in their 30s and 40s.  Good luck this month.

Post # 185
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@misstine:  When talking to my lawyer he said given our current visitation schedule, I am within my rights to refuse visitation in the new state until there is a court order. One, he moved without telling anyone until after, he is on probation and a felon (flee’d the state), and he has been inconsistent in the past. My lawyer said that we should wait for him to take us to court since I have it the way we need it for now. I just wonder if it wouldn’t look better if I was proactive about it? Our divorce was in a different state that I am living now, so who ever petitioned the court would need to pay to get the files transferred, then court would be in the state I live with my daughter now. Most people don’t think my ex would go through all of this to even see her, since he has been so inconsistent in the past but you never know. More than anything I wish he was a good father and we didn’t have any of these issues. She is 10 now and refuses to even talk to him on the phone, when I try to bring up that she may have to visit him in his state she is almost in tears. Unfortunately, I don’t know how much pull the wants of the kids are, especially when she is only 10.

Lawyer also said that moer than likely travel costs would be split, but that is the least of our concerns. Dh now says over his dead body will he let her get on a plane πŸ™‚ Luckily she has a great step father that has been there more in her life than her father ever has been.

Post # 187
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@macintosh:  Yup, thats exactly what I mean! 33 going on 34, usually I wouldn’t worry so much about this but I ahve close to 35 where chances dramatically decrease!

Post # 189
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Helper bee

@MrsJuneBee:  Thank god for good step parents! I’d like to think I am one and I have one. Thats so sad to hear. I know it happens all the time but still. My parents got divorced with i was 13is and my sister was 11ish and we both testified against visitation with him. Hopefully he wont go through the “hassle” and you wont have to really deal with it. I’m hoping SD’s mom doesn’t feel like leaving her new baby (they way she refers to him always emphasising the new party) to get SD. Really drives me insane she is such a terrible mother yet is always posting on facebook how much she misses her and bla bla bla. makes me wanna scream, if you miss her develop a relationship.

Post # 190
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@misstine:  I feel yah, it’s the same here! Actually he has posted that he picked his daughter up early from school and they spent the day together…..we hadn’t heard from him in months! Hopefully whatever is best for her works out, sometimes I wonder if I am clouded by my anger but I seriously try to keep it as civil as possible. Sometimes you just can’t win.

I wish the best for you guys, if you ever need to talk you know where to find me!

Post # 191
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@lroetheli:  Yes! FX! I’ll be thinking of you! : )

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@MrsJuneBee:  Nothing, : ) Just sit back and wait I guess. I’m going to give it until Jan/Feb and then we will go to a fertility clinic. We are in the process of moving right now and we will be living with my parents for about two/three months until we buy again. So, it’s going to be a little rough getting in prime BD’ing during that time. Hopefully this month will be the one..

I just noticed I lost my . in my username. Funny the little things we notice! : )

Post # 192
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Helper bee

@MrsJuneBee:  sorry I lol’d at the picked her up from school part. SD’s mom had some carzy chick make a fake twitter to post as the mom. She was taking pictures I was putting on FB and saying things like going to the beach with SD, Picking flowers in the garden. Every other weekend. Well we live in the michigan upper peninsula area and she lives in W.V so obviously we aren’t passing her back and forth every other weekend.

I know all too well the clouded by anger but you have to do what you feel you have to do. Thanks, i will keep that in mind. Same goes for you. I am on an embarassing amount of time. And some times you just need basically a stranger to vent to. Laughing

Edited: I hit enter and it sent. boo.

 

Post # 193
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Morning bees! Today I’m 8dpo! <—See what I did there? Tried to make it upbeat as to not drive myself crazy πŸ˜‰ So last night, pretty bad cramps (I could feel them into my lower back) on just the left side, but woke up and they’re gone. Weird. Still got a mouth full of pennies and this morning woke up to a nose bleed. I NEVER get nose bleeds! Last moth I had classic symptoms, this month the weird ones. I can’t win LOL Excited to see another BFP on the board though! Weeeee!!! 

Post # 194
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@yellowclover:  That’s the worst, sit back and wait! Especially if your anything like me, patience was not in the recipe that I was created πŸ™‚ Really trying to get better!

I’m super glad your tubes are clear and that it wasn’t that painful, I have heard that those procedures aren’t any fun. Focus on the positive, tubes cleared one less obstacle to need to overcome. You know I’m pulling for you!

Post # 195
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@misstine:  Wow, so we aren’t the only ones. OMG you live in DA UPPER UP!?!?! You lucky devil!! My daughter and I actually went there a few years ago, we stayed in Curtis, MI and were able to get pictures with bear cubs in Newberry and parasailed around Mackinac Island. We LOVED IT, I would move there in a heartbeat if there was a good job opportunity!

Post # 196
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@MrsHovzilla:  You are so KU!! When are you testing? I’d be dying to test with those symptoms!

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@MrsJuneBee:  I know!! I am not patient at all, but I’m trying to get better at it as well. Luckily we’ve got a lot going on in the next few months that “should” take my mind off of TTC/TWW’s. TWW is what kills me! Every month there’s new “symptoms” that make me feel as if I’ve got to be pregnant because I’ve never had this before! uh, yeah. not. I’m hoping that maybe there was a little scar tissue or something in there that wasn’t major that the HSG cleared. There can be small blockages that they can’t see because as soon as the dye goes in, they are cleared. So, I’m holding hope that there was and now we are all clear! Thank you so much! I’m soooo rooting for you too! We need to join pudding!! : )

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