(Closed) Now auditioning for the role of Bridesmaid!

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Do you have to replace her? I mean, could you just go with the ones you have now?

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Hey, I’m about to post the same exact thing, but Maid/Matron of Honor. I say go with the first one, it’s hard when you drift apart, but go with who you are closer to NOW. Because in the long run, it’s who your going to see more after that counts.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Maybe ask one to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man and one to be a personal attendant?  That way they are both included.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

i’d just ask like you asked everyone else. if she asks why you’re asking so late, just say that you were thinking a lot about it and decided you really wanted her to be a part of your day

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

agree @ashleyjane

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I finally convinced my Fiance that being even doesn’t matter and he should ask his two close friends who were kind of shafted since I’m only having 5. So they were obviously asked late.

I told him to just ask them the same way he asked all the others, but he ended up explaining the situation to them like this: At first, he was limited since we wanted the sides to be even and he had to ask family and childhood friends first, but we decided it’s better to just have everyone who deserves to stand up there with us and he is very happy to be able to now ask them. They both accepted right away and weren’t offended by the late invite.

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