(Closed) Now he tells me? Help….

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 62
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@MsJ26: ((((((((Hugs))))))))) What a roller coaster! I’m sure right now you are really hurting. I’m so sorry things ended up this way… at the same time, I’m really proud of you for standing up for what was important to you. I think even though you’re hurting now, you spared yourself mountains of heartache later. You’ll feel better with time, I promise.

Post # 64
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Bumble Beekeeper

Oh wow!  I am sorry, but I agree with

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@78h2o:   In time your heart will heal and you will find the one-and he will want kids with you also.  Best Wishes. 

Post # 65
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Sugar bee

Wow, I am so sorry! I just read through the entire post, and my heart breaks for you 🙁  I can’t believe that now after all of this, he’s not letting you see your dog because the woman he CHEATED on you with doesn’t feel comfortable about it? Screw her! It’s your dog! Ugh. What a jerk. As sad as I am that you’re going through this, I’m happy you didn’t end up marrying this person. I wish you the best with the healing process and strength in moving on – and I really hope you can get your dog back!!

Post # 66
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

This is such a sad story, I’m so sorry 

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@MsJ26 that this happened! I hate to say it but being civil might not be worth it in this scenario. 🙁 Best of luck to you whatever happens!!!!

Post # 67
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

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@MsJ26: Wow, I am really sorry to hear what happened to you, but like PPs have said, its better that you find out now before you got married.  I would definitely fight him on the dog, who gives a shit about his new GF? 

Post # 68
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

Wow. I can’t believe this. It terrifies me when things like this happen and nice girls like you (at least you seem nice!) are totally blindsided, after you were saying what a committed and loving man he is. Now he’s a cheater who won’t let you see your DOG?! I’m sorry but what a piece of shit. I wish ALL the best. Good luck, sweetie.

Post # 69
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Oh my god, this is horrible! Boy did you dodge a bullet with this one. I wish you the best as you heal from this relationship. 

Post # 70
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

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@MsJ26: what a rough situation… kudos to you for staying so strong throughout all of this! I Can only imagine what you must be going through. You will find someone amazing 🙂

Post # 72
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

what the …!? Wow, what a pos, I’m so glad you got away from him!  I have to give you credit for keeping civil, I’d be making his life miserable and def be seeing my dog no matter how that bitch felt. Her ass can leave essentially *my* house if she didn’t like it.

Post # 73
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Oh gosh. Whata mess. I am so happy that you ended things though before you ever said, ” I do”. As messy as it may seem right now, it could have gotten alot messier. I hope things start looking up soon. <3

Post # 74
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

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@MsJ26: I’m a jerk and I would show up to my house and live there. You own it and until he buys you out, you bet my butt would be in my house. They can stay at her place. And I would be seeing my dog whenver I wanted. WHat a POS.

Post # 76
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@MsJ26: Not letting you see your dog is NOT okay!!! Was the dog initially yours or his, or did you get him together?

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