(Closed) Now I’m getting a little crazy – I think he bought the ring!

posted 10 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
767 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Try to just enjoy yourself. It seems like your guy paid the ring off over time, so you’re not going into debt over it. I justify the expensive ring purchase by reminding myself that I’ll wear it every day for the the rest of my life. What other big purchase lasts that long? And just think- in the few(?) years you’ll be done with school and be making even more money. 

Get excited! Get rid of that doubt! You’re going to be engaged soon!!! 

Post # 4
542 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Congrats!!! Try not to worry too much about the amount he spend. It’s over and done with now and at least it will be something you will appreciate forever. Have fun waiting!!!

Post # 5
6659 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Congrats!! I remember those feelings when I knew DH was in the process of buying the ring. I knew it was important to HIM for the diamond to be over 2 carats and I had such mixed emotions about it. The combination of being excited about being able to wear such a fancy ring soon, finally being ENGAGED!! mixed with the guilt of him spending so much $. Yes, he was easily able to afford it, but it was just such a shock to realize what he was doing.

I say enjoy it, getting engaged is the first step you two will take on your marriage journey and it’s truly a right of passage. It was his decision to spend the amount and like PP’s have said it’s over and done with.

Post # 6
475 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Congrats! not going to lie, I’d feel guilt a slight bit – but just as you want to build a life with him and give him what he wants, he wants to do the same for you!

Post # 7
32 posts

men are so bad at covering up yes…..i mean no lol mines the same, it would be nice if he could change when he is doing it like you said so you can be suprised.

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