(Closed) Now that I have the dress, I am having buyer’s remorse

posted 11 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
8943 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I don’t see huge at all!  You look gorgeous and your waist looks so tiny!  I wouldn’t change anything.

Post # 4
5166 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Well at 5ft 11 and 145, I’m not really sure why you want to lose weight. I think you look great in the dress. I would stick to it

Post # 5
98 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I agree with MissAsB you do not look huge at all.  That dress looks fabulous on you!

Post # 6
208 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

You look beautiful!! I love your dress and you look itty bitty in it! Do NOT look for other dresses! I know how you feel, though. I look at everyone’s pics on the bee, other blogs and say yes to the dress and I get worried that maybe I don’t like my dress anymore. There are so many pretty dresses out there so you just need to stop looking at others’ posts! I know it’s hard and clearly I can’t stop myself because I had to see your dress, but honestly it will be a long 4 months if you keep agonizing over it! Seriously, you look GORGEOUS!

Post # 7
1428 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

That dress is stunning on you! Seriously!

Post # 8
4980 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Please don’t change a thing you look gorgeous in your dress

Post # 9
1 posts
  • Wedding: September 2012


Post # 10
444 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011 - Vandiver Inn

You definitely do NOT look huge in that dress. I think you’re just having a bit of panic. I totally did this right after I bought my dress. Just try to relax and think about something else for a week. Once you’re in a calmer state of mind, look at it again and see if you can see yourself through our eyes. 🙂

Post # 12
711 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I changed my mind about my dress w/ 4 months to go.  

Even if the first one is gorgeous, if you don’t love, love, love it as much as you hoped you would, you can still find another one that you do and not loose too much money.

Depending on your budget, some designers can accommodate that time frame.  The ones that I found that could do it t

hat fast w/ time for rushed alterations were DB, Claire Petitbone, Carolina Herrera, Oscar de la Renta (some), Ulla-Maija, and Jin Wang.  

I ended up getting the same OdlR dress that I had seen in the store on preownedweddingdresses.com from a local girl for almost half off of what the store was charging.  I was able to try it on and leave with my dress the same day.  I’m SO happy.  I loved my original dress and still do, but I changed my mind for several reasons about wanting it to be THE dress.  I’m thrilled to be wearing the dress that I bought.

I’m selling the dress that didn’t make the cut now.  I’m psyched that it’s being feature as one of the “dresses they love” and have had an inquiry already.  I’ll be selling the other one after the wedding too.  I hope to not loose more than the cost of my original dress.

Post # 13
165 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Huge??  What are you talking about, girl?  You look tiny!  The dress is very flattering on you. 

I wouldn’t change a thing.  That dress is beautiful!!

Post # 14
134 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I love it, you look amazing!

Post # 15
418 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I would never ever ever guess you had wide hips given this photo and that dress. Seriously, no one with a waist that small could have large hips! I wouldn’t worry about that you look stunning!

Post # 16
481 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

You look STUNNING.  145 lbs is a great weight for 5’11, honestly!!

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