(Closed) Now that I have the dress, I am having buyer’s remorse

posted 10 years ago in Dress
Post # 32
1 posts
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think you look beautiful! We are getting married the same day and I felt the same way a few weeks ago. I kept it out of site and now I’m back in love with it.

Post # 33
1909 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You look absolutely lovely! Your description does not fit the girl in the photo..even your eyes are smiling πŸ™‚ Good luck with your decision. What’s most important is that you are happy on your wedding day.

Post # 34
8351 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I think you look beautiful in your gown. I wish I looked that good in mine. If you are thinking you want a little more bling, you could try on a couple different jeweled belts/sashes with it, but I think it is perfect on you as is. And it is perfectly normal to feel the way you are feeling. Try it on again, and try to remember why you fell in love with it, and I am sure everything will be fine πŸ™‚

Post # 35
186 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

you look really cute and you don’t look huge IMO you don’t need to lose 5 lbs you are great like this and it’s honnest πŸ™‚

Post # 36
729 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I’m 5’11” and my goal weight is about 10 lbs more than you weight.


You do not need to lose weight AT ALL. You would be under weight at 135, the least amount you should weigh is 136 for your bmi to be 18.6.

Post # 37
4544 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That dress is stunning on you! You have nothing to worry about πŸ™‚

Post # 38
124 posts
Blushing bee

you look so beautiful, and your waist looks soooooo tiny… πŸ™‚

Post # 39
277 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I don’t think you need to lose any weight! You look stunning and your waist is tiny. The dress really does look gorgeous on you. If you really don’t love it, you might want to keep looking, but just try to remember how you felt in it and why you bought it. πŸ™‚

Post # 40
2161 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I must be really huge then!  LOL   I’m 5’9″ and 151 right now.   πŸ˜‰   Actually, I understand what you mean about feeling big.  I think it’s because we are not used to wearing clothes that flair out at our hips.  

I think you look absoutely beautiful.   I’m not just saying that.  

Post # 41
46 posts
  • Wedding: November 2004

Mon Ami- you look lovely! Don’t be like me – I bought a gorgeous Oleg Cassini dress for my Aug wedding and then started looking at other dresses! I ended up hating the Oleg and returning it to DB – now I am still searching and getting more confused than ever! I still don’t have a dress and can’t move forward with any planning without knowing what my dress will look like!

Post # 42
254 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I LOVE that dress! Don’t change it, it’s too fabulous! You look amazing in it!

Sorry for all the yelling. I went into panic-mode at the thought of you doubting your amazingness.

Post # 43
161 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I think you look gorgeous! And your waist looks TINY! πŸ™‚

Post # 44
23585 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

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@MonAmi: Thanks girl!  I hope you’re feeling better about your dress, because it is beautiful on you!

Post # 45
68 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2015 - Garden of the Gods

You look lovely and the dress accentuates your best features. I wouldn’t have any regrets, and don’t worry about the weight loss! You will likely lose 5-10 lbs in the last few weeks of planning because of the business of it all anyway, and you don’t NEED to lose the weight. You look amazing. Best wishes!

Post # 46
1309 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

you think you look huge in it?! Are you kidding?! The natural waistline totally defines your waist. You look SO thin! I love it on you!!!

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