- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 2016
I want to second the person that said waiting is good because of your age. When I was 21 I was dating this guy that I thought the world of. And he really wasn’t a bad person at all. But years later I’m so so glad we didn’t make any rash decisions because he’s definitely not the person for me. It was hard to see at that age because you want your life to begin, I get that. If you still want to marry him in a year or two then go ahead. But there’s nothing wrong with waiting til your lives are a little more sorted out and you’ve had a little more life experience. You’re still going to be young when you marry so I wouldn’t worry!
Also if you really want to consummate your relationship that’s up to you. God is going to love you either way. There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin when you marry but there’s also nothing wrong with having slept with your husband before you got married. If I were buying a car I’d give it a test drive…a husband is a more important decision than a car 😉 Good luck!!