(Closed) NTNP or TTC during engagement?

posted 9 years ago in TTC
Post # 17
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Six months before our wedding we decided it would be ok for me to be off BC for medical reasons. He was ok with me not being on anything a while before that, but I wanted to be closer to the wedding before. For the last six months of our engagement we took the NTNP approach. I tried charting for a while but then that combined with wedding planning and everything else I sort of fell off the charting bandwagon. I was secretly relieved that I was not pregnant for our wedding, but if I would have been, it would have been fine…If I had been too worried about it I would have stayed on BC until after.

I think if you both agree that now is the right time, go for it. I personally do not see anything wrong with being pregnant at your wedding, especially if you were going to start trying right after getting married anyway. If anything, this could be a good time to practice charting so that when you are ready to try, you already know how (although like I said, it was a little much for me to try to do that and keep my head on during wedding planning, haha).

Post # 19
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392 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

were currently ttc. My wedding is 05/10/13. But our wedding will be family only so im not worried about what everyone else thinks lol

Post # 23
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Is there any reason you can’t get married a year earlier? Then you can have fun at your reception, have a fun, last child-free vacation (I have three relatives who were pregnant/had kids at their wedding, and they ALL told me they regret not having a great honeymoon!) and still have a baby by next April. It also gives you time to save back up what you’re spending on your honeymoon and wedding before taking on the costs of a child.

My Fiance and I moved up our wedding date by a year last month, and wanting a baby was definitely one of the reasons!

 

Post # 24
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I was pregnant when we got engaged, but we knew we would have a long engagement so having a baby never got in the way of wedding planning. DD was just short of 3 years old when we got married and we started TTC right after the wedding. I love the fact that we could have our child as a part of our wedding day, but if we had been child-free the day would have been very different. Not better or worse, just different.

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