(Closed) Number of girls at your bachelorette party?

posted 10 years ago in Parties
Post # 17
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I wouldn’t worry about only having 3 girls, it may just be a blessing!  My Maid/Matron of Honor planned a weekend of all this stuff to do with a bunch of girls and it was a nightmare for her which translated into a tense weekend for me.  I asked for something low key but she went farther.  We ended up having dinner with about 8 girls, then a club (which I didn’t want to do at all) with about 10, and brunch/spa the next day with 5 girls.  A lot of people cancelled so it would of been more and I think its good that they weren’t there.  Too many girls, especially ones who don’t know each other, can get ugly!  All I wanted was to have a quite little mixer at a hotel room, have some dinner and relax.  My favorite part was the brunch and spa!  Do not feel like you should have more than 3 people. 

And I think having only a handful of friends is more the norm than having a lot.  I wish I had 3 good friends, as opposed to a larger group of girls that I’m not really close to.

Post # 18
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

We’re going to be a group of 6-7…i was really worried initially that no o ne would be able to come, but I was pleasantly surprised!

Post # 19
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

i had 2 parties. the first was a weekend trip with my 2 bridesmaids. i loved it, it was the people that are closest to me. i had another local party with 7. it was fun too, but i think you just get better bonding/girl time with less people.

Post # 21
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I was also totally exhausted at mine and would have preferred something more low key like a spa. I’m too old to be hit on by 22 year olds in a hot sweaty bar!

Post # 23
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

The list I gave my MoH had about 15 people on it. Who knows if all will end up coming. 🙂

Post # 24
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

We had 8. It was a good number because everyone got along and it was drama free! 

Post # 25
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I had my two sisters, sister-in-law, two bm and two friends (one who later was unable to make it) so 6 total and it was PERFECT…anymore and it would have been a crowd 🙂

Post # 26
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

After college my good friends that I made moved back to their home states. I’ve met a couple new good friends since, but not many at all! Thankfully, my friends from college who are flying in for the wedding will be around a few days before, so I planed to have the bachelorette party then. There will be 11 of us total. If my college friends couldn’t make it, then there would be only 5.

Post # 27
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh no!! Man…now that yall have me thinking of logistics, I think mine might be too many! Me and 3 Bridesmaid or Best Man and 1 Maid/Matron of Honor, old roommates, old college buddies, and I wanted to bring my mom…is this too many!?

That will be like 11-12 people invites (of course some might not be able to make it)…but we are going to Vegas, so maybe its ok for that?

Post # 28
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

There were 15 girls on mine. The numbers don’t matter as long as they are people who love and support you.

Post # 29
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - New York Botanical Garden

4 girls (and 5 guys) and it was perfect!

Post # 30
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

There were 6 of us at mine.

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