(Closed) Number of past partners

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Total number of sexual partners
    1 : (109 votes)
    20 %
    2-5 : (164 votes)
    30 %
    6-10 : (103 votes)
    19 %
    11-15 : (48 votes)
    9 %
    16-20 : (31 votes)
    6 %
    21-30 : (32 votes)
    6 %
    31-40 : (16 votes)
    3 %
    41-50 : (6 votes)
    1 %
    51-60 : (5 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4895 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2018

    You really should have an option for 0; there are a lot of engaged bees who are waiting for marriage. I answered 1 because I’ve only had one partner – my FH. But, if you’re asking about partners before him, it’s 0. 

     

    Post # 5
    Member
    85 posts
    Worker bee

    6-10.

    Post # 6
    Member
    1659 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Stop counting.

    Post # 7
    Member
    85 posts
    Worker bee

    @confused85:  Zero is the last option. People just need to read all of the options 🙂

    Post # 9
    Member
    648 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @confused85:  “wow cannot believe the number of 1s.”

    Yeah, but I think there are a lot of young posters on here, so it’s all relative.

    Post # 11
    Member
    6359 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I don’t have too many… but I don’t like it when the guy has more than I do (suggests past or present “playa” mentality, ugh, no thanks). It’s better the other way around, IMO. Women usually have a better reason than just to see how high she can get that number.

    Post # 12
    Member
    511 posts
    Busy bee

    My SO and I have never told each other the number of people we’ve slept with. We prefer not to think about it, let alone talk about it! But I’m glad I’m in the 6-10 range. I have zero regrets about it…and I’ve had a lot of fun ;). And honestly, I’ve learned a lot about intimacy. 

    Post # 13
    Member
    4049 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    @BabyCarat:  Yes, young posters – and also the fact that we’re mostly all in committed monogamous relationships, and therefore we are not upping our count (though I realize there are some non-monogamous Bees here).

    Post # 14
    Member
    648 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @bowsergirl:  Yeah, there are definitely some threads lately that prove that not all of the hive is monogamous^_^’

    Post # 15
    Member
    4049 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I’m young, so only having one partner is not too unusual. My Fiance is older and has only had two, including me, and that stems from the fact that both relationships were long term, and in between that time he just didn’t know how to meet women. I also think neither of us are the kind of people who can do casual sex. We just need a pinch more trust and commitment.

    Post # 16
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    56 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    I’m 18 and I’ve slept with 4 people, including my Fiance.

    My Fiance has slept with either 8 or 9 people, including me (I can’t remember exactly)

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