- 8 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
I am probably being completely paranoid… but here’s the deal:
My bf has been friends with this girl since early high school (so 10+ yrs). When we first got together, he was so excited for me to meet her.
Her and I are casual friends, but are becoming closer.
This past weekend, we took a trip together (bf, me, her, and her bf).
Her and her bf got in a silly, emotional, “drunk” fight, and I went outside to talk with her.
During this talk, she told me she considers my bf in her “top 3 best friends”… “well, no like… number 1”.. Those were her words, and she repeated them a couple of times. She also said “no matter where I was at, he would always bring me cigarettes when I wasn’t old enough” , etc… I mean no biggie, but it was a tiny bit awkward for me I guess. We were both heavily drinking, so I wrote it off.
I know he totally looks at her as a “guy” friend, and I believe him when he says they never, ever had a romantic relationship whatsoever. I also believe he has no romantic feelings for her, but I am not sure it is the same on her end.
I truly think she has some deep down romantic feelings for him.
Another thing is that I went to her house last night (go every week to watch a show), and realized that she has the same car as him! Now, mind you, bf got his car 10 yrs ago, it was his first car, and “so cool” according to his friends. Kinda a big deal, haha… It’s a red Honda Civic… And guess what she has? Yeah, a newer red Civic, but just a “plain” model not the kind he has. Not sure when she got it.
Still a very weird coincidence.. almost too much for me to believe it wasn’t on purpose?
I am just afraid that later down the road, something might happen. Like, she will confess her undying love for him. I know I cannot drive myself crazy about it though because really nothing can be done.
We are planning to be engaged this summer with an October 2011 wedding. I have no doubts about our relationship.
They are good friends, and act like guy friends together as far as I’m concerned.
Just feel a little threatened.. I mean, she’s super-cute, a lot of fun, etc.
I could never tell him he can’t be friends with her, that is not my place. Besides, I have nothing to base this on besides suspicion and a gut feeling.