- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
This isn’t really a big deal, but I thought I would ask you what you thought. I kinda feel like I’m being a bad hostess.
My Maid/Matron of Honor lives 5 hours away so I don’t get to see her often. Work is sending her to my area so she is crashing with us Thurs and Fri. It was kind of unexpected, BUT I’m deff excited to see her.
Here’s the thing. I love her to pieces, but she can be a bit of a party animal. She wants to hang out in the city all night, but honestly.. after work, all I want to do is veg and have some girl talk. Last time she came to visit in Oct., we went out both Fri night and Sat night til the wee hours of the morning. Don’t get me wrong, I had a blast.. But I just can’t stomach another weekend of that. I feel like I am being really lame and I totally understand that my friend wants to hang out in NYC, if I was visiting her in the city, I’m sure I’d want to do the same thing!
I just know that it’s going to be a long night — it’s never just dinner and drinks with her. I mean, it’s part of the reason why I love her — she is deff FUN, but this time I would much rather just rent a movie and catch up. I will probly suck it up and go out with her, but is it totally rude of me to ask her to stay in??