Post # 17
In my personal opinion it is totally understandable that you’d not want to stay with your sister considering what you know of her boyfriend. For your mom, not knowing any more I’d say its a little odd you’re flat-out refusing because presumably if she is dating him he is a decent guy. I’d maybe not send your daughter to stay there alone but if you’d be with her the whole time I wouldn’t see the problem with trying it out. But, there could be more to the story that I don’t know so I’d hesitate to make a real judgment on this.
Regardless, it is your life and your decision so if you’ve decided to stay with your grandma your mom should probably just deal.
Post # 18
Not at all, you have to consider your daughter above any one else. Stick to that and you will be fine 🙂
Post # 19
@CorgiTales: it is my step neices boyfriend, not my sisters. sorry for the confusion. also my mom has a record of picking the bad ones (abusive, jail/prison reccord ect.) and they ALL are amazingly great men… at first.
@Zinzerena: I am all for staying with my grandma too 🙂 she is the one that I love being with, my mom drives me nuts after the first day. besides, my grandma is helping me with my wedding 🙂
Post # 20
Oh, so I clearly misread your first post. Stay with your grandmom and have your mom come visit over at her mom’s so she can see the grandbaby.
Post # 21
@rachaelrobin: that is what I am planning on doing. I told her she can come see us there or pick us up and take us to the mall, lunch or whatever for the day if she wants to spent time with us.
Post # 22
Girl that is your child…you protect her (bad language included) as you see fit…NO EXPLANATION NEEDED!