(Closed) NWR: Am the only 23 year old who doesn’t like going out anymore??

posted 10 years ago in 20 Something
Post # 103
54 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m 26 and I’m entirely the same way. I mean, I do enjoy going out from time to time, but I really have to be in the mood for it. I don’t even like drinking a lot these days. I will have a glass of wine with dinner, but my days of doing shots are way way behind me. Makes me kinda nervous for my bachelorette party…haha. 

Post # 104
3997 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

SO and I are both turning 21 soon and we both would rather cuddle up on the couch than go out and party. Sometimes I feel really boring but then I realise that partying was never really my thing and I wouldn’t trade how we are for anything. I found my SO and ‘settled down’ early and it makes me so thankful/happy (:

Post # 105
37 posts

I am 23 years old and have been working a professional job since I was 22 so I work 40+ hour weeks. When it comes to Friday night I will go out to dinner with friends/grab drinks and every other weekend I will go out to bars and stuff with friends. I do go through phases when I am a little bit of a home body though.

Post # 106
2 posts
  • Wedding: August 2013

@misssydneyj: I have to say I’ve never been a real party animal…I do like to go out and enjoy myself once in a blue moon but I must say I have to classify myself as borring..hahaha…and I just turned 24…so I guess every gal to her own you know??

Post # 107
1023 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think I hit my drinking/partying peak at 19. Then again, I live in New Orleans.

Post # 108
21 posts
  • Wedding: October 2012

I am so on the same page… I am 22 but I have never been into parties, I am a college student and I cannot relate to any of my peers…. I work full time and go to school full time, and like you I prefer to relax on the weekends… I have always felt so old for my age do to some unfortunate issues growing up that made me become an adult very young! So I have a hard time making friends bc I never want to party or go clubbing!! I have like 2 friends on the same page as me ugh!!! So glad I am not alone

Post # 109
57 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Im 24 and even when I was in college I only had the urge to party every once and a while.  Now that I have a full time job and have a dog we stay in a lot more.  I dont blame you for wanting to stay in more!  I know we all get the urge to go out every once and a while but we go out to find our SO and future fiances BUT we have them!  So …. =)

Post # 110
6375 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

I was a bad kid… drinking and smoking pot and sneaking into clubs. Then I turned 19… and it wasn’t fun any more. I’d turn up and be like “ugh, the music is so loud… I can’t talk to anyone… and I hate being ogled by drunk men (always have)… and the beer is expensive and disgusting… and the place is full of kids…”. I just got sick of it. For me, it was only fun when it was taboo and slightly naughty. Then I grew up and saw how… dull and repetitive it all was.

Started going to real ale pubs. OH wears tweed and a flat cap. I bake a lot, and spend my afternoons in nice places in the country drinking nice ale. Ah.. bliss…

PS Am 28!

Post # 111
699 posts
Busy bee

I’m a baby in the 20s (22!) and I have never ever really even been in the whole party thing. Maybe when I was like, 15 for a year. Then I got over it. lol

Post # 112
53 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2012 - Catholic Church, Chateau Thomas Winery

Our wedding reception will be the only going out I’ve had in what feels like forever!

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