(Closed) NWR (and bored at work) – Aidan or Big?

posted 7 years ago in Weddingbee
  • poll: Who did you like better - Aidan or Big?
    Aidan : (50 votes)
    59 %
    Big : (29 votes)
    34 %
    Someone else (who??) : (1 votes)
    1 %
    None - I thought she should have ended up single.... : (5 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
    350 posts
    Helper bee

    I liked Aidan better! What part of him was manipulative? It’s so funny how we can all interpret these shows differently.

    While I personally liked Aidan better, I totally think Big was a better match for Carrie. They kind of deserved each other, if you know what I mean.

    Post # 4
    5800 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    While I personally would have liked Aidan better Big was a much better fit for Carrie (minus all the SATC movie nonsense about leaving her at the altar)

    Post # 5
    9029 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I like Aidan better too.

    Big was the manipulative one, he would always show up just when carrie was finally happy with another guy and mess everything up. Big was also too grown up sometimes more like her dad than her boyfriend.

    Post # 6
    6661 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I’m a Big girl here! I also dated an Aiden and a Big and I married my Big so there is no contest 🙂 Once you experience the chemistry of Big, you can never be with an Aiden. It was never meant to be!

    Post # 7
    9824 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    I would have stayed with the Russian in Paris and left him for a hotter younger Frenchman.

    Post # 8
    2154 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    David Duchovny! Anyone? Anyone?

    Post # 9
    350 posts
    Helper bee

    @Beluga: nothing like an institutionalized man to keep things exciting!

    Post # 10
    2714 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Ron Livingston!!! (I don’t remember his character’s name on SATC)

    jk… (kinda)

    I am an Aidan fan through and through. 😀

    Post # 11
    198 posts
    Blushing bee

    @TinyTina: Berger? Ew! LOL

    I’m all for Aiden. Big is that guy that only wants you when he can’t have you. Having been in that situation before, it is totally unappealing to me.

    Post # 12
    3798 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I thought she was crazy for dumping Aidan. I was actually MAD at her.

    Post # 13
    2714 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @aleeshabobeesha: Berger!! Hahah I think that is just because I had a crush on Ron Livingston from when he was in Office Space. 😀

    Still gotta go with Aidan though.

    Post # 14
    709 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    haha. i voted for big but i did love me some berger.

    big was just… big. he was so right for her. they had their ups and downs but they had some crazy narcotic love for each other. their lifestyles fit better too.

    i loved aidan for her when they were together, but i’m a hopeless romantic and wanted carrie to end up with the one man she was really meant for.

    Post # 15
    3367 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    @KatyElle:  LMAO!  Perfect.

    Post # 16
    1160 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I was seriously just (over)thinking about this last night, weird. Big all the way for me.

    Big was immature, kinda ridiculous, couldn’t commit and all that. But he didn’t try to mold her into whatever he wanted.

    Aidan was controlling. Their first date, he gave her the smoking ultimatum. (Yes I know smoking’s bad. But geez, wait a few dates before you demand someone cold-turkey quits a habit that is notoriously difficult to break.) It was HIS decision to move in together and sell her condo. Also there was one episode where he froze her out without telling her why and she basically had to guess/apologize her way back into his arms again (literally). And anyone remember the scene, sometime after the Big affair (maybe same episode as the freeze-out one?), where he slaps her nicotine patch onto her arm, like actually hits her? Ugh. Not a fan. Although the actor is hot.

    [Yes I have been watching many reruns lately….]

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