(Closed) NWR But emotional

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
5984 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

@Mrs.Vowrenewal:  Ohhhh, so sorry!  I know how hard it is to hear that news.  Keep the faith that your Grandpa will remain healthy and be there by your side during your big day.  However, if he does pass on, I’m sure that he wouldn’t want for you to delay your plans to marry your fi.  Hugs!

Post # 4
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

You seem to really care for him and I can feel the emotion in your post. It’s seems as though you have a great connection with him, that means he will be there with you on tht day regardless. He will be by your side either way. (((Hugs))))

Usually when people say things like that it’s because they’re ready to go. I know how sad this must make you feel, but if he’s ready, would you want him to stay just because you need him to? Sometimes we need to be less selfish and realize that if someone is in pain or sick that it’s time to let them go, so that it’s easier for them to stop fighting too.

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Post # 6
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Mrs.Vowrenewal: I totally understand. However, you’re still in the first stages of dealing with this. You will work through it. He would want you to go forward and have an amazing day and start your future. It would make him sad if you didn’t move forward with your life because of him.

Post # 8
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1962 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m sorry to hear that your grandfather is doing poorly.  I hope he’s not as bad off as he thinks.  Since you two are so close I doubt he would want you to postpone your wedding.  If something happens to him I’m sure nothing would make him happier than knowing that you will be happily married and have the comfort of someone you love.  

Post # 10
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1909 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Mrs.Vowrenewal: Oh Kendall, your post seriously broke my heart. My Fiance had a close relationship with his grandpa who just passed in January at 101 y.o. and won’t be there for our wedding. 

Such a sad thought about walking down the aisle without him, it’s understandable that you’ve been in tears. * HUGS *

Post # 12
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3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Mrs.Vowrenewal: Oh, okay. I thought you meant you were considering leaving Fiance…

Post # 14
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3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Mrs.Vowrenewal: Good. 🙂 Sorry you’re having to deal with all this, girlie… 

Post # 15
Member
498 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

my grandfather was like a father to me. when i lost him 5 years ago, a HUGE part of me died along with him. i still feel him all the time and i have his picture on my dresser.

i’m sure you are just as close to your grandfather as i was to mine, and ii know how hard it is to go through (him being sick, saying those thigs, etc.). just be strong and positive and spend as much time as possible with him. tell him everything that is on your heart. let him know how important he is to you and explain to him how he has made a difference in your life. those are the things i wish i would have done.

 

 

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