(Closed) NWR- Do you ever feel “unpopular”?

posted 7 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 4
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6351 posts
Bee Keeper

I think we all feel that way sometimes.

Post # 5
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1391 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Sometimes I feel like I reply to people and they never respond and then I get sad 🙁 I am lame sometimes haha

Post # 7
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3012 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I feel like that all of the time.  I get kind of upset when one of my posts gets overlooked – especially if it’s directed to a particular person and they answer people they often talk to.  But I understand it’s hard to keep up with everyone sometimes.  I wish there was a better way to go about it.  It just sucks when you do feel like a thread killer though.  Makes you feel out of place or as if nothing you say has any sort of meaning.

Now, I don’t think anyone is intentionally making people feel this way.  I guess everyone is different about they go about posting.  I try to keep my eyes open and reply to those who seem not to get an answer.  I’m silly.

It’s also hard for people to get to know me through a post.  I censor myself often because of several reasons.  I’m a very sarcastic/smart ass and I don’t want anyone to take it the wrong way or get offended.  I can relate to a lot of the girls that are “sassy” on here, but I sit back and chuckle.  Maybe once I get used to being around the boards a lot that I’ll open up.

 

Post # 8
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868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I agree there needs to be a notification button!! 

Post # 9
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808 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I do, I do!!!  I even went to start a thread this morning about how I go to respond to a post or start by own, but end up deleting it, because I don’t want to sound like an idiot or get no responses!  But of course I deleted the the thread before posting it!!

Post # 10
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6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’ve had a ton of posts that only get a few responses. I think most of it has to do with when you post things.

If it makes you feel better, I love seeing you around the boards!

Post # 11
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2548 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Definitely. But I really don’t post with a certain personality or stride like others do. And i remain quite under the radar too. So people probably don’t recogbize my name like they do others either. Don’t feel bad though, I think its quite normal.

Post # 13
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745 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

all the time

Post # 15
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2825 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

haha definitely!  I feel like a thread killer most days.  Probably more than half the posts I’ve commented on say “no replies since” after.

I hate when you are excited to share something and then no one responds or hardly anyone responds… Makes me feel like my ideas are lame. 🙁

Post # 16
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3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Quite often.  I’ve responded with ideas that I looked up and then the OP then says… Look what I found, what do you think? (and it’s what I posted with no acknowledgement back).  It gets annoying.  I do think the boards can be “clickish”… there I said it 😉

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