- 7 years ago
I’m a regular poster but decided to use an alias for this post out of fear that someone who might know my other name will see it and I really don’t need anyone to know. But I don’t know what else to do other than bring it here because I’m not supposed to talk to anyone I know about it in real life.
Future Brother-In-Law has changed completely since he got married a little over a year ago. He barely speaks to anyone in FH’s family unless he needs money to pay off the bills he’s racked up knowing that he can’t afford.
He first accused FIL’s of urinating all over his children’s things and destroying the house they were living in (which is his parent’s house and they were paying for everything while he was living there) as a way to “get them out” when in fact, FIL’s had told Future Brother-In-Law and his wife that they needed to move out of that house because FIL’s were moving back at least 7 months before this urinating thing came up.
I’ve been around Future In-Laws enough to know that they would never do something like that. Urinating on their grandkid’s things and tearing up the house they were about to move back into isn’t logical. But Future Brother-In-Law told Future In-Laws to not speak to him or have any contact with him and his family.
Several months after that, Future Brother-In-Law came over and apologized and told his parents that he was sorry he ever believed something like that, that he knew them better and all was forgiven.
Now, Future In-Laws are being accused of sexually molesting FBIL’s son.
I’m trying to stay out of it. I only know what I’ve been around to hear and what FH has told me, but that accusation is absurd. The last time Future Mother-In-Law saw this boy was nearly a month before the accusations came about. At first, they only accused her, but are now accusing Future Father-In-Law as well.
It’s destroyed my Future Mother-In-Law. Her health is already bad enough and Future Father-In-Law has also been doing worse since all of this came about. Future Father-In-Law has heart problems and was already not well from working on FBIL’s car in the blistering sun for several hours only days before all of this came about.
I don’t know what is going to come of this. No charges have been filed yet but it worries me for their sake. The officers handling this don’t seem to believe that there’s any substantial evidence… but I’m still worried.
I don’t know why I posted this. I just needed to get it out because it’s been a weight added on to me as well.
If you’re relgious, pray. If you’re not, send good thoughts.