(Closed) NWR: FH feeling guilty over mother's death.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2622 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Well the one person he seems willing to talk to is you. Keep reassuring him that his mother KNOWS he loved him. Depending on your beliefs, that she is hearing how guilty he feels and probably doesnt want him to feel guilty.

Hopefully with time it will pass.

I am sorry for you and your family in laws or this hard time.

Post # 5
2299 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

if your husband doesn’t like to talk about it, write him a letter. write about what you loved about his mother, the relationship you saw between the two of them, and that you know for certain, that his mother felt loved by him. i would give it to him and tell him that even though he might not want to talk about it, there were some things you wanted to say.

i did that for someone in a similar situation once, and months later they told me that they had kept the letter, and re read it to gain a little peace in tough moments. maybe this would be helpful to your husband, and might open the door for more communication about his feelings.

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