- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
I am just sad and in need of a vent… AGAIN. I will start with some history. my Fiance was adopted by Future Mother-In-Law and a guy we will call D. D got extremely abusive towards both of them, so D and her got divorced. Fiance didn’t talk to D for about 4 years.
Then when we had our daughter Fiance decided he would get in touch with D. These past years they have gotten a long good and we have even stayed at D’s house a couple times. This makes FMIL’s new husband (FFIL) jealous/angry. So ever since he started talking to D again he calls Fiance “D’s boy” and says Fiance is going to turn out like him (abusive) because he knows how bad he it hurts Fiance. He is always telling Fiance that if Fiance doesn’t leave soon he is going to. He gets drunk and even tries to physically fight Fiance, the time I remember he kept punching Fiance and Fiance tried to tell him to stop but he wouldn’t so Fiance punched him in the face and broke his jaw…
THEN, ever since Fiance decided to go into the Marines, Future Father-In-Law has been giving him even more crap… Saying stuff like “I can’t wait till you leave”, “Once you’re gone you’re not coming back”, then the whole “You’re going to be someones b****, and you are going to turn gay” thing… Tonight we were eating dinner at FFIL’s mom’s house with his family and he kept telling Fiance he should just go live with D so he wouldn’t have to deal with Fiance anymore. So when they got back to their house Brandt tried to talk to him about it and told him he didn’t like him saying that kind of stuff especially in front of everyone. Future Father-In-Law just denied it, told Fiance not to talk to him for the rest of the week (FI goes to boot camp this up coming Sunday) and that he is so happy that Fiance is leaving.
AND THEN… Future Father-In-Law expects Fiance to work for him… FOR FREE!!!! yes, you read that correctly. He always just plays it off like nothing happened and expects Fiance to take time out of his life to go help him.
Then the thing that makes me really sick is that Future Mother-In-Law won’t even say anything… she just sits there like nothing is going on at all. But then GOD FORBID Fiance say something mean back to him. Then she jumps on Fiance for being a jerk! I am so sick of these people!
*as a side note he has only been dealing with this for these past 2 years is because we just finished high school last year and he couldn’t get his own place (no credit ect). also, of course this isn’t the entire life story but that would be way too long.
Thanks for letting me vent… I really needed it.