(Closed) NWR, i’m feeling so down…

posted 9 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

I’m so sorry.  (((hugs)))

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Oh no, I’m so sorry! On the bright side, be grateful that you can go. How much more awful would it be if you couldn’t attend your own sisters’ quincenera?

Could your mom or dad give you a small $500 loan? I hate doing that, but I’d do it in a pinch.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think it is wonderful that your husband wants you to go and spend the money to do so so you can be with your sister and family. You don’t have to go into any detail about why he is not there to anyone. Go and have a great time with your family and be proud and happy that your husband is so supportive that you were able to get enough money together for you to go.

This economy has put alot of people in a bind. You are not the only one. I hope your sis has a great Quinceanera! Felicidades!

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

but quincineras are a big deal in your culture. it’s basically like a wedding from what i hear!

Oh, yeah, don’t ask your parents for money….but don’t make it like he can’t go b/c you guys can’t afford it. just say he had some plans or blah blah had to work, soemthing so you don’t gert the “i told ya so” crap

Post # 10
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Helper bee

Girl, I know how you feel I am Latina and have a family that LOVES to gossip over any little reason.  Just tell them he had to work or something, and that he’s really sorry he couldn’t come.  Your husband is being great about it and the important thing is that YOU her sister will be there!

Post # 12
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Helper bee

LOL I know tell me about it!

Post # 13
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

your in my prayers, have you thought about trying to drive there instead of flying? it would be cheaper and iit sounds like 8hrs in a car would be worth it.

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