(Closed) NWR: I'm so tired of how negative my grandparents are.

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1459 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@SouthernGirl:  I’m so sorry, your grandparents sound toxic! I would try to phase them out as much as possible (visit less, answer fewer phone calls). Flesh, blood and money don’t give them the right to treat you like this. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@SouthernGirl:  I’m so sorry, your grandparents sound toxic! I would try to phase them out as much as possible (visit less, answer fewer phone calls). Flesh, blood and money don’t give them the right to treat you like this. 

Post # 6
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1459 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@SouthernGirl:  That’s awful! Of course they have needs as well, but there’s no need for the things they want to come at your expense. It’s not as if you’ve don’e anything drastic. And what would you even need a diamond for if you weren’t with Fiance anymore (other than for the pure joy of owning a diamond, which is not nothing). They are behaving very strangely!

Post # 7
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Wannabee

hmm, im sorry and i feel your pain 

I think my grandparents worst. My Father is a player and he got my mom pregnant and left my mom. My mom moved to my grandparents for up to 16yrs along with my sister and brother until two years ago mom and my little brother departed and left my sister and i here with our grandparents. My Grandmother thinks money is worth the same as back in their time, she claims to care for me most but she is very cheap  and doesnt like me to pretty much leave and go anywhere at anytime,majority of the time i have to lie about the places i go. My grandfather is very strick and has a strong hate for me which i am positively sure about. for eg. he would be the first person in the morning i see in the household and i would say “Good Morning” he will never respond , tht goes for the other parts of the day. I am 18 yrs of age, all my neighbours and friends at my age drive, i got my license in Dec/2014 , Its March and he let me drove ONCE. His attitude towards me is bipolar and makes me feel hated/unwanted/neglected/, this has been going on since i know myself and it is eating me alive , but some might think i need help , but he needs to get his attitude together. And personally i cant blame myself for the family i was given but the stupid mistake my parents made was having me bcuz they were not prepared for a kid,

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