Post # 1
Does anyone else still get worried about telling their parents certain things?
I just got my first tattoo on Friday (at age 31…), and I am still a little freaked out about my parents finding out. Granted, they live several thousand miles away so it isn’t like they could hunt me down or anything. I know it is still a completely irrational thing to worry about. I just can’t help it!
Likewise, I still think that I’ll feel a bit weird about telling my parents when we get pregnant. Obviously they know we are married/sleep in the same room/lost our virginities loooong ago, but it still seems weird to say “Hey….we are doing the nasty, Mom & Dad!!! Now I’m knocked up!!” I’d put it more eloquently, of course, and I’m more than sure they’d be happy, but it is still a strange fear of mine (kind of like them finding out I skipped Easter Sunday Mass this year…and the past three years…).
Sometimes I eat ice cream for dinner, in bed, and I’ll neglect to brush my teeth afterwards. I once left a gallon of expired milk in the refrigerator for over a month before taking it out to the dumpster. Yikes. I’ll go ahead and put myself in a corner now.
I’m not sure why it is that I still get knots in my stomach about telling them certain things, and it is actually pretty funny when I think about it. Anyone else have things that they are reluctant to admit to their parents, even now as adults?
Post # 3
Oh my gosh, yes! I’m the biggest wimp about fessing up to things they wouldn’t approve of. The worst was when I didn’t tell them for months that FH had moved in with me. I knew they wouldn’t like us living together outside of marriage. But they actually took it pretty well, then changed the subject quickly. 🙂
Sometimes it makes me laugh and think to myself “You’re twenty-friggin-seven, for goodness sake!”.
Post # 4
@Mrs.DBee: LOL…Glad I’m not alone!! The first night that my (now) Darling Husband stayed over with me while we were still dating, my parents came for a surprise visit the next morning. He had JUST walked out the door before they got there, and I was trying to remove all evidence of having a sleepover from their sight. I think the bottles of man-shampoo in my bathroom gave it away. Oops!
Post # 5
Yes, My Dad was upset with me for getting my nosed pierced at age 23.
Post # 6
I am the same way. When I was pregnant (at the age of 23), I told my mom via a text message (with me sitting across the room from her.) I BEGGED her to tell my dad but she would not,lol. I’m such a wimp!
Post # 7
I’m with you; I’ve hid a tattoo for 7 years and they still dont know my Fiance + I live together (I’m out-of-state) so I figure I will tell them after the wedding. I went sky-diving last weekend, and didn’t even tell them until after! I’m not going to change their minds on things, so I save myself the headache by keeping it to myself…haha
Post # 8
My sister got a tat of a grateful dead bear in her bikini area. Our mom found out about it when my sister had her first kid! Beat that for awkward lol.
Post # 9
@Katnisseverdeen: This is why I’m planning on NEVER wearing sleeveless tops around my parents ever again! LOL I still hate disappointing them!
@TiffanyBlue91011: That sounds exactly like something I would do. Or I’d probably take an even wimpier way out and tell my sister to tell them for me!!
Post # 10
@anabell465: Do you make your Fiance stay completely quiet when you are on the phone with your parents so they don’t hear him in the background? 😉 “Honey, you’re going to have to go hide in the closet and sit quietly while I talk to my Mom on the phone.” 😛
@pharmy: Super awkward! But hopefully the joy of the occasion overshadowed her disappointment about the Deady Bear tattoo!! LOL
Post # 11
Every time I do something parents wouldn’t approve of, I take a moment and relish in the glory that is being an adult. No guilt here!
Post # 12
Me!! I’m 26 and just married and when we get pregnant I know I’m going to feel slightly weird telling them! Is like they KNOW you had sex… It’s so irrational but I can’t help feel that way lol
Post # 13
@MrsPom: Not irrational at all! I have the same fears.. It’s just weird to think about. Just like I pretend my baby sister who basically lives with her boyfriend is a virgin, lol.
Post # 14
This post made me giggle. 😀
I don’t think I have that anymore, but I remember when I was in college and a guy took me on the back of his motorcycle for our first date (hottest. first. date. ever.) and I didn’t tell my parents for YEARS.
Post # 15
I have this fear every now and then lol! I think we just never want to dissapoint our parents lol. Although I have done many things they have not approved of in my 23 years. Like moving in with my SO and not telling them for like a year!
@Mrs.DBee: You are not alone!
I think they are used to my antics though, like getting my nose pierced, both the side and septum, and my tattoo. I didn’t hide these things because I have been financially independent since I was 18 and haven’t live at home since I was 17.
I would feel so weird telling them I’m pregnant if and when I am. Like PP said, I’m sure they know I have sex but ew I rather pretend they have no idea that happens lol.
Post # 16
I’m not this way about everything (like, I’m pretty sure I’ll have no problem telling them once I’m pregnant).
But I have a tattoo I want to get on my foot some time this year and I dread the day they first see it because I know how much they don’t approve of tattoos.