(Closed) NWR: 'It's probably a good thing that you have to abort.'

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 212
129 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@MrsRs:  Really, who the F says shit like that and think it’s okay??! I’m a mother myself and pro breastfeeding by all means, but where does she get off saying it’s probably a “good thing” that you had to abort? How awful!!!! Hope you get your health under control. I know this all must be hard for you. *hugs*

On a side note, did SO say anything to defend you? Mine would have SNAPPED!!

Post # 213
7518 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

@MrsRs:  I am glad you are doing well and I know you are excited about the possibility of saving one of your breasts but please don’t get blindsided by this. It sounds like you have an agressive cancer since they are doing the partial masectomy. If you choose to save one breast it could be a ticking time bomb. I know from experience.

Please do your research and make an informed decision. This might mean seeking a second opinion. At the end of the day the most important thing is that you are alive and well not that you have breasts/can breastfeed.  

Post # 214
2529 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@MrsRs:  I hope you are getting through all of this as best you can. I just came across your thread and read all of it, I know I’m pretty late getting here.

First of all, I am glad you are able to do what is best for you under the (horrible!!!) circumstances, and that you have such a wonderful and supportive husband. Thank goodness the surgery went well. I really, really hope you will be doing much better soon! HUGS and absolute best wishes in every way possible!!!

Secondly, I was beyond appalled at your VILE, FILTHY, HIDEOUS, EVIL Mother-In-Law and what she initially said. Then when I read your update, with what she said in that letter, I felt like vomiting. I cannot believe someone would even think such things. My God, how inhuman! I DO NOT have words for how superlatively, egregiously horrifyingly that dirtbag acted. WOW. She can rot in hell. I am so glad that your husband is getting a restraining order!

Again, wishing you all the best, plus LOTS of space from all foul wretches that try to question what you needed to do. <3

Post # 215
97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2000

I am glad to hear you have a treatment plan. Best wishes now and in the future. I work with many women who had breast cancer 20-40 years ago. They are going strong, living fulfilling lives with cancer a distant memory. 


Fortunately, your husband is putting you first. God bless him. 


Post # 216
1736 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

@MrsRs:   I’m so sorry for everything your going though. I’m also sorry your Mother-In-Law is a psycho. No one should have to go through what you are goin though and to add that extra stress on top, gosh.

good for hubby for doing the right thing and staying by you.

Post # 217
2590 posts
Sugar bee

@Lakelyn:  I wasn’t trying to start a discussion.

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@Penelopeee:  I’m not kicking anyone.

Post # 218
325 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@ceebree:  No. This is the most messed up thing I have heard. How dare you judge her right now. This is not an abortion discussion. 


Post # 219
267 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013


There is nothing wrong with being pro-life, but please don’t kick this woman while she is down. 

Post # 220
1098 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@MrsRs:  You are in my thoughts hun. Your and your husband are doing the right thing wit his mother. You do not need this while in treatment.

My mother is currently n treatment for breast cancer. She was at Stage 4 when it was found. She is doing great. She’s been on chemo for a year, and she lost all her hair and 40lbs (which is is sooo happy abour really) but she kept her life. As she said once ‘when you’re this sick you dont need people who don’t wish you well around”.


Post # 224
5879 posts
Bee Keeper

So glad to read your update. I remember this thread. You made the best decision for your and your family and that’s all that matters.

Well, think of all the money you’ll save on having a Brazilian ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 225
1887 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@MrsRs:  You are so brave. I’m sorry for all the things you’ve been going through and I wish you all the best for your recovery. Something tells me your incredible sense of humour will see you through the darkest days.

Post # 226
6593 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

@MrsRs:  So glad to see an update with positive news!  Well at least you don’t have to shave for a few months.  You are a strong and brave woman that can do this!!!  I am so amazed by how strong you have been throughout this.

Post # 227
1740 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@MrsRs:  I’m so happy that you updated! You sound positive and upbeat, like you have an amazing attitude about this whole mess. Glad to hear that you are doing better – keep fighting the good fight!

Oh, and sorry to hear about your pubic hair ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 228
1075 posts
Bumble bee

@MrsRs:  you are a character and I love it! I am sooo happy to hear your doing better. I remember your story and its such an honor to have you share your testimony when so many of us are crying over table cloths and napkin holders. Stay blessed and I will keep you in my prayers. 

Oh and please do not lose your personality, your positivity and sense of humor is the best weapon against the trials life throws at us

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