(Closed) NWR: 'It's probably a good thing that you have to abort.'

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 229
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

So glad to hear you’re doing much better! 🙂

 

Post # 230
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I was so glad to read your update and to hear you’re doing better!  My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer January 2012 and I know what an emotional and physical strain that can take on an individual.  It’s amazing that you have the sense of humor about yourself that you do!

Post # 231
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Yay!  So glad you’re back and doing as well as you are!

(Maybe start an update thread, lest someone come back here, read the first page, and start that whole mess again)

Post # 232
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Bumble bee

So glad to see you on the boards and see your positive news!  I am so glad you are almost cancer free.  Now… just one teeny tiny thing:  sorry, but I have two cats and THEY are the coolest ever!

Post # 233
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - Vine Street Church

I just can’t wrap my head around this at all. This is one of the times in my life where I find myself going ‘people like this EXIST??’ then sit holding my head and staring with terror into the distance.

And congrats for partial remission! That’s awesome!!

Post # 234
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MrsRs:  Amazing update!! So happy for you and really loving your great and hilarious attitude 🙂

Post # 235
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

You are one strong woman. I seriously have so much respect for you. I wish you and your husband and kitty all the best going forward. 

Post # 236
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Happy to hear your update. Has crazy Mother-In-Law stayed away? Hope so. I’m so glad your doing well and kicking cancers ass! 

Post # 237
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@MrsRs:  *hugs* I’m so happy to read your update!  I’m glad you are able to retain your sense of humor, and I’m so glad you are somewhat in remission!! 

And yes, your cat is totally better than mine.  Mine is evil and she hates me.  Oh well 🙂

Post # 238
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@MrsRs:  Thanks for the update! So happy you’re doing well! (Well, you know. All things considered.)

My Mom is a 2 time cancer survivor, and I have the most INSANE adoration for ultra-strong cancer survivors like you!

Have fun with your adorable new cat, and keep kickin’ ass!

Post # 239
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

You are in my prayers and I think God must think you’re a pretty tough cookie if he thinks you can handle this. I’m very sorry for the loss, and I am so sorry for the ignorance of your Mother-In-Law. You will someday be a great mom, if that is what you want. You don’t have to have breasts to be a great parent. Proud of you for walking out. Keep your head up- and know that you are beautiful no matter what!!!

Post # 240
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

‘I’m sure you know that all I am saying comes out of love. Love for my son and love as a mother. You will probably never understand this love.’

Ok – is this bitch the fucking devil?  Was this supposed to mean you’re never going to understand because of your cancer?  I cannot.  I want to beat this woman with my fists for you.

Fuck her.  

I’m happy you’re in a good place right now.  You deserve it.

Post # 241
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@MrsRs:  Congrats and yay for no shaving! I’m so happy you’re doing well. Hopefully your friends come around and realize you’re still you. Best of luck. 

Post # 242
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Your post states you might have a double masectomy. A close relative of mine had that done, and I went to a breast cancer specialist because I freaked out, concerned about my own risk. This doctor told me that double masectomies were becoming more common, but were not, in her opinion, a good idea in most cases.

She said that what affects rate of survival is how early the cancer is found, not having both breasts removed. Of course, the opinion of one doctor, but it seems I’ve heard studies about this. Please research it carefully. Not to say it isn’t appropriate in some cases, but don’t do it for a false sense of security.

I never repeated this to my relative because she had already gone through with it.

Post # 243
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

… Because breastfeeding is the most important thing in a child’s life…

Wow.

I’m so sorry for everything you’re facing. Prayers for you tonight.

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