Post # 1
Just a random question. Do you like having sex with the lights on or off?
Personally I like alittle bit of light not too much so you can see all my flaws lol.
Weirdly my SO likes it pretty dark, just the TV on mute as background light…
What’s your preference?
Have a great weekend bees, TGIF!*
This topic was modified 2 years, 11 months ago by Amerie27.
Post # 2
DAMNIT!!! I clicked enter by accident so the poll is useless lol
Post # 3
TGIF!!! Yeah, for me, I like only a little light, not too much, plus it’s more romantic that way!
Post # 4
yeah exactly right! Last night my SO didnt even have the TV on for backlight and i definately hit my face off his butt lol
Post # 5
DH likes the lights on… completely. i hate it because i’m kind of self-conscious, but when i try to convince him to turn off the lights and he starts saying how i’m so beautiful, sexy, etc that he just wants the lights on because he likes to see me… i usually end up giving up the argument pretty fast because i feel so flattered LOL. i’d much prefer just a TV on in background or adjoining bathroom light on or something like that, but i’m at the point where i’ve just gotten used to the light on.
Post # 6
We usually have sex with the lights off, but the only reason for that is that usually we have sex before we go to sleep, or even in the middle of the night. We’ve had sex plenty of times in broad daylight lol so it isn’t an insecurity issue 😉
Post # 7
im the same way self conscious wise!!!! We have good SO’s 🙂
Post # 8
It’s nicest with a lamp on, or dimmed lights. But that’s just because we find full lights way too brigt at night in general.
Post # 9
Dimmed lights for sure. Not completely dark, but with a little bit of light.
Post # 10
DH likes lights on – but I feel more relaxed (and therefore have more fun!) with lights off!
Post # 11
- Wedding: April 2013 - Rhode Island
Dim lights here too. Basically anything that isn’t bright light like in a hospital or pitch black darkness is fine.
Post # 12
I tend to like lights on during night sex. But I think we have sex more during daylight than night. We do some morning quickies and often have sex once we get home from work, while it is still light. For the next month or two it’s dark at 6, but soon enough that will be back.to normal.
Post # 13
We have sex with lights on. Not the main light but a bedside one. To me, lights off means it is time to sleep!
Post # 14
I hate lights off…. You can’t see anything! We have always had lights on, even before bed.
Post # 15
He says im beautful and wants to see me(cant argue with that compliment) and hey I want to see him as well. I have never enjoyed looking at a naked man as much as I love looking at him. Meow!