(Closed) NWR: Livid does not even begin to describe how I’m feeling…

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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90 posts
Worker bee

Sometimes family can be really shitty. I have an uncle who does this all the time to my mom. She just stopped responding and he’s slowly making his way through the rest of the family now.

 

I feel for you and hope you feel better ๐Ÿ™

Post # 4
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374 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

OMG..what a jerk!!!  I think you should give him a piece of your mind once you calm down a bit!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Ugh, I don’t talk to my biological dad either so I know how emotionaly taxing it can be to get a call out of the blue from him. When my grandfather (who I was incredibly close to) had a stroke he didn’t call me until the NEXT day. Anyway, I know what you’re going through…I hope you start feeling better soon…

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper

Oh… my…. god. That is a truly despicable thing to do to someone. I’m so sorry.

I would have called him and let him have it, but I’m a loud-mouth. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 7
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2053 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

That’s pretty crappy that he would intentionally illicit such feelings from you with an implied “your grandma is in trouble” tone, all for money. I’m so sorry. It seems this is just his way. Breathe. Go for a short brisk walk or drive around the block. Get out of the house and when you return, you will have greatly dispelled the frustration of that experience. Deep, calm breaths…

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Can you and your mom change numbers so he can’t contact you? Would you want to do that. I would tell him not to contact you unless it’s something serious and nothing to do with money.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

What an ass hole!! Im sorry he did that to you..kinda sad what alcoholics will do for money!

**hugs**

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Wow..I’m so sorry!

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m so sorry, that’s horrible of him to do. I don’t speak with my father either, and I know how much you’d love to yell at him, but maybe I’d do like some other bees said and just go for a walk, angry-clean your house, whatever gets you busy. Just do something to keep you occupied, and try to let it go without contacting him. If he doesn’t know that it affected your or bothered you, he doesn’t get additional contact from you (and another chance to play on your emotions). Sorry again, I sure hope you feel better soon. 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I would be livid too ๐Ÿ™ What a horrible way for someone to behave to you. *hugs*

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

oh my gosh, that is horrible ๐Ÿ™ I’m so sorry *hugs*

Post # 14
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I an so sorry cait, I can only send you (((((HUGS))))) and positive thought.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I am so sorry. That is absolutely terrible. I can’t believe that he did that. I can’t even imagine….

 

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