(Closed) NWR: My aunt is basically calling me ugly

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 32
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544 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@BakerBee16:  I would delete her. Seriously. And if she had the nerve to ask me why I did it, I’d tell her that Im sick of her negative comments. 

 

 Update: I just saw your pic and I think you look hot! lol

I think she is jealous of your looks. But I have to admit the “shithead” tag made me laugh out loud, because it’s just such a weird thing to do!

 

 

 

Post # 33
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544 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@housebee:  hahaha great way to handle that situation!

Post # 35
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1004 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@BakerBee16:  WEIRD…

 

Could it just be that she doesn’t like your “hipster” attire? Is she a very traditional person, or does she have ideas about what “pretty” is based in another decade?

 

Because, my mom would TOTALLY comment something like that to be snarky, because she thinks black thick frame glasses are best left in the past, and dislikes anything remotely hipster or trendy.

 

My mother has very strong opinions about what I look best in, and  I tuned her out a long time ago. I’m just glad she doesn’t have facebook and is computer illiterate for the most part, thank god!

 

If she really meant that you actually look better when you are not wearing things she dislikes, she probably is embarrassed that you took it as her saying you are ugly. But she should have actually said that… not just left a silly comment for all your friends/relatives to see saying you look bad!

Post # 37
Hostess
2633 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@BakerBee16:  Maybe, just maybe someone hacked her account. I have a great aunt on my facebook. I didn’t invite any over extended family to my wedding (small wedding 100 people, and my Darling Husband has a big family too). I just had my grandparents, and my dad’s siblings and my 1st cousins. Well I had my great aunt comment on my FB “Thanks for the invite” on the day of my wedding. Honestly I don’t think it was her, I think it was her daughter who is very socially awkward, to say the least, I know she would say something like that. I don’t see my 75 year old great aunt say anything like that in public. 

Does your aunt live with anyone who could have access to her computer?

Post # 38
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168 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2000

  • Maybe, just maybe, she thinks the pictures don’t do you justice and she thinks you are much prettier IRL?

Post # 39
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1443 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Block her ass…life is too short!  PS, you’re very pretty!

Post # 40
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458 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I’m sorry but after your update where she tags herself… LOL. I’d just unfriend her.

Post # 42
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2250 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@BakerBee16:  Your hair is VERY pretty, and it worries me that she thinks that way and is a hairdresser… this is why people take off a foot when asked for a trim! Haha.

Post # 44
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2188 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2024

@BakerBee16: You look beautiful in that picture and your Aunt is crazy. She’s posting negative things because she thinks your hair is too long? WTF it’s none of her damn business (it’s not too long either it’s pretty). I’d untag her “shithead” tagging of your picture and tell her that your hair is your business and if she posts another negative comment or tag you will be deleting her from your FB. Put your foot down she’s being super rude.

Post # 45
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1022 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

First you are a cutie patootie so I hope her outlandish comments arent making you feel self conscious.

Second there could be any number of reasons your bat shit crazy aunt is going H.A.M. on you BUT it doesnt matter. What DOES matter is that her shitty comments are making you feel bad. I dont recall you stating how close you are to your aunt but maybe blocking her from seeing MOST things is the way to go if you dont want to delete her period. *SIGH* Crazy people irk my nerves.

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