- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
So I have a VERY dear friend whom I love tremendously, but she has been doing something that is driving me crazy! She often wants to come over, and I am more than happy to have her come over, but she will text me something like :” Ok if I come round today? No definite plans” to which I will respond: “Sure. I have to do X and X this morning but I will be home at X time.” To which she will respond with something like: “Ok, I have to do X and X on the other side of town so I don’t know if I’ll be around then.”
This is making me crazy (it happens VERY often). It makes me feel like I am obligated to hang around at the time that I told her I would be there, but then I may miss doing something because she may decide not to come after all. We see each otehr all the time, so I don’t fear that she doesn’t really enjoy being around me, I know she does, but is there something that I can politely say to get her to make more concrete plans?