(Closed) NWR- stressed out and feeling lonely

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

@Misfit: that’s when you can come here to let it all out! I’m not going to lie and say that it’s going to be all butterflies and rainbows for you. It’s going to be really hard to move away from your family and friends like that. The good thing is, you realize that this is a great opportunity for you, and you have a lot of pros to look forward to as well!

The first few weeks in your new area are definitely going to be rough. Call your mom often and let her know that you do miss her, but that she’s in your thoughts all the time. Get out there and make some friends! I haven’t had a chance to check out what your Maid/Matron of Honor issues were, but it’s always hard losing a friend…especially one who was so close to you. Just try to keep your chin up, and remember that you and your Fiance are in this together. You’re a team, and everything will work out for both of you.

Post # 4
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2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

*hugs*

I am sorry that you are feeling so stressed. Moving, even if it is just down the street, can be so stressful! It is completely normal to feel like this and I am sure that everyone around you understands.

Take this new opportunity to make some new friends, catch up with old ones over the phone and supercharge team mr. and mrs misfit!

And whenever you need to cry, i am sure there are tons of us here on wb that would be more than happy to hear you out! best of luck!

Post # 6
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2260 posts
Buzzing bee

@Misfit: awee *hugs* like the PPs have said know that you can always come on here when you need a vent or just someone to talk to, we’re all here to support one another.

I know that your scared to move away but hopefully you’ll make some new friends quickly, so you won’t feel as lonely. And just think of all the new experiences you will have! Honestly one of my favorite things to do is take the bus and go exploring the city by myself. I get to find all these cool little places and since I’m not sure how well you know the area you are moving into, it will help you get adjusted faster. And with moving, the next few weeks are going to go by so fast and before you know it you’ll be all settled in.

Sorry my response seems scattered too but I just really want to make you feel better <333

Post # 8
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2260 posts
Buzzing bee

@Misfit: Oh I get lost all the time (i’m very clusmy, accident prone and have little sense of direction) but lol it such a feeling of accomplishment when I get back home. But make sure you take your cell phone just in case you do need help πŸ˜‰

Post # 10
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5977 posts
Bee Keeper

@Misfit: I also went back to read your Maid/Matron of Honor thread and I’m really sorry. For her to just up and lash out at you like that and totally ditch you in your time of need was not cool. It sounds as if you’ll be better off without her anyway since she clearly didn’t want to support you.

Keep checking in here once you do move and let us know how you’re doing. We’d love to hear about all of your new adventures!

Post # 11
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1909 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Misfit: * hugs * It sounds so bittersweet for you. Please know how courageous and brave you are to make such a big move!

Leaving home is never easy…I joined the military when I was 18 and bawled like a baby every time I had to say good-bye to my parents. But I’ve also had some amazing life experiences because I did go. What a cool new adventure for you and Fiance, lots of love and luck to you in this transition πŸ™‚

Post # 13
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1909 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Misfit: Saying yes to uprooting and going into a completely new an unfamiliar place is brave in my book! And actually going through with it? Totally courageous πŸ™‚ It says a lot about you and your faith in Fiance and your relationship. Lots of people dream about doing what you are doing but never go through with it. You are taking a huge, scary risk and disrupting your life here. It’s going to be painful at times, but it can also be a beautiful time of personal growth. You go girl!

Post # 15
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868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@Misfit: Wow we are going through the SAME exact thing! We move in two weeks 12 hours away from everything we know. I know how you are feeling!

PM if you like! Good Luck to you!! 

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