(Closed) NWR: UNBELIEVABLY RUDE!!!!!

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Post # 32
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Wow..that’s just….Wow!

Post # 33
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

lol at least she saved you the calories.

Post # 35
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Omg I would lose my shit on her!

Post # 36
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

And it is NOT too much to ask her to pay for it she opened and dispersed stuff that didn’t belong to her she needs to repay.  The audacity to not only open the note read it but to  disperse stuff that didn’t belong to her. I am enraged for you, just OMG really

Post # 37
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

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@tootietoo2: haha. I get you totally. I love that I can go in and do my thing and everyone is still relaxed and normal around me. The last office I was in my parents also worked there so everyone knew and you can definitely tell the difference. And I don’t mess around with chocolate, I could eat it all day long every day, if someone opened MY chocolates, and then ate them and then shared them too I woulda lost it on them.

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@Miss Tattoo: lol

Post # 38
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Seriously? It would make me so upset! I’m shocked for you!

I wouldn’t trust her anymore & I don’t have people working for me I can’t trust. I’m usually really forgiving & think most things can be worked out, but there are some things that are a big no-no. I would worry about it happening again. What if she’s been going thru things the entire time she’s been working there? I think you should wait a day or so until you’re not as mad & then talk with her about it. Or go to HR.

At least you have some chocolate to enjoy the rest of your day!

Post # 39
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I would be more upset about her reading the card then eating your chocolates. What if your husband had referenced some racy encounter the two of you had or pet names for *ahem* down there….that would be so akward!!

Post # 40
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I had to laugh at that, because it’s so incredibly ridiculous!

I do not think you are asking too much by asking her to repay.  If it was me (and I chose to not share), I would have probably kept the chocolates to eat a couple everyday, and in fact WOULD have eaten them all by myself.

And reading the note!?  That’s just…argh.  I’m furious for you!

Post # 41
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Buzzing bee

Is it terrible coworker week. 

Post # 42
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Helper bee

It absolutely is not too much to ask for to pay for half.  She overstepped boundaries, and is not acting appropriately.  Yes the note may have said to share with the office, but like you said, you might have decided to share with someone else, or heck, not at all!  Maybe you did want to eat youself into a choccie coma? 

“it’s not like it’s a big deal”…well it isn’t a BIG deal, but like you said, she obviously feels comfortable enough (and wrongly so) to read things not addressed to her, who knows what else she’s looking at?

Not cool.

Post # 45
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wow, I would have flipped out. Who does that?!? I wouldn’t only make her repay you for the chocolates but I would ALSO make her replace them. Hope they were rare and expensive!

The receptionist at my office signed my credit card slip after receiving a delivery for me once. By the time I got there, the delivery guy was gone and she goes “Don’t worry. I signed for you. Was $5 ok for a tip?”. WHAT?!?!?!?!?!

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