- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
OKay i know hte answer to this… but.. I still feel the need to vent…
So… here is the deal.
One of my friends birthday party is tonight. It’s at a place, she always goes, and there always seems to be drama, I am just not up to drama tonight, even though I told her I would go. Drama follows her, or she follows drama, I would love to cut her out, but I just can’t, I feel so sorry for her, she lets poeple walk all over her, but I believe this stems from abuse from her mother (she is also very young and I am like a mother figure to her, she has told me this) So, the reason I don’t want to go, aside from the Drama factor is there are a few people, I do not like, along with my sons Ex-Wife… (long story) she is psycho and my son can’t go to this party.
Now comes to today…
I dont want the drama. My sons birthday was a few days ago, and he was out of town playing a gig in California. which is HUGE… So we are going to take him out to dinner tonight. so I am off the hook for a little while, but this is a huge shin dig for her.
I am in a catch 22. My love for her outweighs my dislike for everyone (including my sons exwife). I sent her an email asking if it would be okay if she came over one day this week and we could scrapbook all night long, and eat junk food and stuff, we have lots of fun when we do this.
Now, I am beginning to regret this, I do not want her to be hurt. But at the same time, I do not want to see those people. While its her birthday party, my son deserves something for his birthday too… I want to distance myself from any drama because stress does not agree with me (i just cleaned up my facebook list because of all the negativity some people were giving off)
So, what would you do? suck it up and go for a drink? Honestly I know TONS Of people will be there, and really I would rather treat her specially for one night. I would get balloons and a tiara for her and everything on scrapbooking night… she wouldn’t regret it…
I guess I needed to vent.