Post # 1
My friend is having a NYE wedding (starts at 9pm) this year, I rsvp’d but it was just my name, should I ask her if I can bring my husband or does it mean that it was just for me? Thanks in advance!
Post # 2
jade31 : The invite was just addressed to you, and not you and your husband?
If she only addressed it to you, I would think that it meant she was only inviting you… although it’s pretty rude to not also invite your husband, especially on NYE when that night is special to a lot of people and they usually like to spend it with their partners.
Did she invite the partners of your other friends?
Post # 3
You were asked to RSVP nearly 7 months before the wedding without your husband?
Uhhhh yeah I’d ask for clarification. To me, it doesn’t matter “who the invite was intended for” because all of this is rude AF.
Post # 4
I’m thinking that your husband is not invited. Pretty ballsey of her expecting people to go to her NYE wedding without their so. Would be an instant decline from me.
Post # 5
She wanted RSVPs already??? I wouldn’t go to a NYE wedding without my husband. That’s rude to invite only you.
Post # 6
jade31 : are you sure it’s an actual invitation? Maybe it’s a Save the Date for the both of you
Post # 7
It was an e-invite, and I think it was an invite, it says “you’re invited” and not save the date. I rsvpd yes for now, and when she updates her site with more information, I’ll ask her then, I think that it is more of a cocktail stand up party than a formal sit down wedding, so I think that she just didn’t really think about it.
Post # 8
I would clarify with her. jade31 :
Post # 9
I hope it is an oversight in how she addressed her invitation. Otherwise, lol @ her thinking you would rather spend NYE with her and the love of her life, instead of the love of yours.
Post # 10
I just received an evite for a wedding a few weeks ago. It was also only addressed to me. I just messaged the bride and she said my S.O. is invited also. Not sure why he wasn’t included on the evite though…. If it wasn’t an oversight I definitely would not be going!
Post # 11
Is it possible that she is trying to gauge interest in the wedding before confirming her final guest list? It seems super weird to me to send an e-vite as the first and only notification of the wedding.
Post # 12
jade31 : I would think that if it was just addressed to you, its just you invited… Personally i wouldnt go to any wedding without my husband. Thats rude.
Post # 13
Just ask her if your husband is invited. If she responds and says the invite is only for you? You just tell her, thanks for clarifying. Then you just change your rsvp to no without saying anything. That shows pretty clearly where you stand and doesn’t cause drama.
It is a pretty obvious, her rude actions had consequences. Those being, you didn’t attend. Id then send a card with congrats but no gift, or maybe a very small gift item off their registry no more than $25.00
Post # 14
- Wedding: August 2019 - City, State
jade31 : My fiance and I were invited to a wedding via evite and it was only addressed to my fiance. However, there was also no way for her to address it specifically, as the same invitation was sent to everyone in one email with all the guests cc’d! (not even bcc’d smh).
However, when we rsvp’d on the website, it gave us an option to add a plus one, which we assumed meant we were both invited. Could just be an oversight because it is an email invitation!
Post # 15
jade31 : Are you sure she hasn’t sent an invite to your husband’s email?